It is generally assumed that the only preparation necessary to become
proficient in these multiform tasks is found in the instinctive
love of domestic life common to all women. But this of itself does
not make a woman a successful housekeeper any more than a taste for
medicine renders a young man a skillful surgeon, or a talent for law
constitutes a learned jurist. There has been a growing recognition of
this fact, but at the same time it is said that the home training of
every girl ought to be sufficient. There are many reasons why this is
not so. If we apply the principles to the case of girls who become
household employees, it is seen to be at fault. It is from the ranks
below the so-called middle class, to use an invidious phrase, that
the great army of household employees is recruited. It is impossible
for a girl belonging to this class to go into a family whose social
advantages have been greater than her own, and become at once an
adept in the conventional forms of table service, an expert cook, or
a good general houseworker. She has had neither the means, nor the
opportunity, to gain even a knowledge of what duties will be required
of her, to say nothing of knowing how to perform them. An incompetent
mistress is unable to give the necessary instructions; a competent
one has often neither the time nor the patience to undertake such
training, and indeed it ought not to be expected of her any more than
it is supposed that a banker who desires an expert accountant will
teach the applicant the process of addition and subtraction.
If, on the other hand, it is assumed that the home training in
domestic affairs is sufficient for girls of the middle and upper
classes, there is also danger of error. It is often quite as
difficult to give regular instruction in the home in these matters
as it is in the ordinary school branches. The Law School of the
University of Michigan, after thirty years’ experience, said a few
years since in regard to the previous reading of law: “It is not
often that the student receives the needed assistance except in
law schools. The active practitioner, engrossed with the care of
business, cannot, or at least, as proved by experience, does not,
furnish the students who place themselves in his charge the attention
and assistance essential to give a correct direction to their
reading, and to teach them to apply it usefully and aptly in their
subsequent professional life.” This same principle too often applies
in regard to housework, even when the teacher is the mother. The most
competent mothers often have the most incompetent daughters--it is
far more easy to do the work than to teach another how to do it.
Sometimes it is assumed that the daughter can learn, as the mother
has learned, by the hard road of experience. It is, also, too often a
question of how the blind shall lead the blind. Again, many girls are
early left without homes, and thus deprived of the opportunity.
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