Some of the Freudians have suggested that foot fetishism is due to
the repression of an early craving for the unpleasant odors emitted
by perspiring feet. As against such a far-fetched explanation, I
would offer the fact that foot and shoe are always associated in the
unconscious of neurotic patients with the male and female genitals,
respectively.
We find the association of shoe and genitals clearly indicated in the
old custom of throwing shoes and rice at departing newlyweds (rice
symbolising the fertilising seed).
Odors, sounds, tactile sensations, etc., may also be powerful fetishes
or antifetishes, according to the impression they may have made on the
nursling. This will be discussed in more detail in the Chapter entitled
"The Senses in Love."
=Fetishes may be of a non-Physical Kind.= A profession may be
a fetish, and so can a mental attitude, in short, anything which in
childhood may have been considered as a source of safety, comfort,
egotistical gratification, etc.
Age itself, is at times a fetish. Gerontophilia is a neurosis, the
victims of which are only attracted to very old men or women, safety,
comfort and food having been assured them probably by a grandfather or
grandmother to whom they clung for neurotic reasons.
=Many Fetishes are Purely Symbolical.= Some women fall in love
with a uniform because that type of garment symbolises to them physical
strength, virility, courage, etc.
A uniform fetishist who consulted me during the war had given herself
to half a dozen officers who appeared to her irresistible until they
undressed or donned civilian clothes. After which she felt indifferent
to them and suffered remorse.
=Antifetishes=, parts of the body or their symbols which repel
us in persons of the opposite sex, can be due either to unpleasant
experiences of childhood connected with such parts of the body or to a
neurotic fear of incest. A neurotic's resistance to a mother fixation
may be so strong that in his (unconscious) fear of committing incest,
he shuns everything which in any woman reminds him of his mother.
A man whose violent mother and sister fixation had kept him till
forty-five away from all women and made him homosexual, felt extremely
uneasy and slightly ashamed in the presence of tall blonde women, the
mother and sister type. While he never enjoyed greatly the company of
any woman, he felt more at ease with small brunettes.
In his case, blonde hair and a high stature had become strong
antifetishes.
=The Quest of the Fetish= means then, in last analysis, the quest
of safety. If fetishes are so closely linked with sexuality, it is
mainly because a feeling of safety is one of the necessary conditions
for sexual potency in the male and the female alike.
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