To this day the study of love has been considered as the almost
exclusive province of poets, playwrights, novelists, movie authors and
philosophers.
Those people have reveled in love's dramatic complications which they
have, whenever possible, exaggerated, for "artistic" reasons. Instead
of clarifying the problem, they have beclouded it.
In anglo-saxon countries a class of neurotics countenanced by the
police and the courts, the puritans, have further distorted the
popular misconception of love by swathing it in the morbid veils woven
by their unhealthy minds.
It is high time, therefore, that the subject of love be reviewed from
an impartial angle, from a purely scientific point of view.
Only one science is qualified to undertake that review, psychoanalysis,
for it has effected in the last twenty years a synthesis of all the
data which biology, neurology, endocrinology and other sciences have
contributed to the knowledge of human psychology and of the human
personality.
No scientist is satisfied with his findings unless they can be
described in terms of accurate measurements, hence, repeated and
checked up by any other scientist having acquired the requisite minimum
of technical skill.
The basis for such a study of love was established by the great pioneer
in the science of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud of Vienna.
By his masterly analysis of the sex life, to which, however, he has
ascribed an undue importance, he has stripped love of many veils
which made it look like a scarecrow. His successors, recognizing the
importance of other factors in the love life, ego cravings, organic
predispositions, etc., have in turn stripped love of other veils which
made it look too romantically unreal.
Thus we are gradually reaching the heart of the problem.
Love to-day is no longer animal love, nor is it as yet angelic love. We
are no longer beasts, altho the primal beast still disports itself in
our unconscious. Nor are we angels, arduous as our striving toward the
stars may be. To determine what love should be, could be or might be,
seems to be an academic waste of time and little else.
To determine, on the other hand, what love REALLY IS AT THE PRESENT
DAY, what actual level it has reached, to explain some of the
difficulties it encounters in trying to remain on that level, and
finally to suggest to MEN AND WOMEN OF TO-DAY workable modes
of adaption at that level, shall be the mission of this book.
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