School educationMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
School education
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Education -- Curricula; Education -- Philosophy
=Authority is Alert.=—Another hint as to the fit use of authority may
be gleaned from the methods employed in a well-governed state. The
importance of _prevention_ is fully recognised: police, army, navy, are
largely preventive forces; and the home authority, too, does well to
place its forces on the Alert Service. It is well to prepare for trying
efforts: ‘We shall have time to finish this chapter before the clock
strikes seven’; or, ‘we shall be able to get in one more round before
bedtime.’ Nobody knows better than the wise mother the importance of
giving a child time to collect himself for a decisive moment. This time
should be spent in finishing some delightful occupation; every minute of
idleness at these critical junctures goes to the setting up of the _vis
inertiæ_, most difficult to overcome because the child’s will power is in
abeyance. A little forethought is necessary to arrange that occupations
do come to an end at the right moment; that bedtime does not arrive in
the middle of a chapter, or at the most exciting moment of a game. In
such an event authority, which looks before and after, _might_ see its
way to allow five minutes’ grace, but would not feel itself empowered to
allow a child to dawdle about indefinitely before saying good-night.
=Who gave thee this Authority?=—We need not add that authority is just
and faithful in all matters of promise-keeping; it is also considerate,
and that is why a good mother is the best home-ruler; she is in touch
with the children, knows their unspoken schemes and half-formed desires,
and where she cannot yield, she diverts; she does not crush with a
sledge-hammer, an instrument of rule with which a child is somehow never
very sympathetic.
We all know how important this, of changing children’s thoughts,
diverting, is in the formation of habit. Let us not despise the day
of small things nor grow weary in well-doing; if we have trained our
children from their earliest years to prompt mechanical obedience, well
and good; we reap our reward. If we have not, we must be content to lead
by slow degrees, by ever-watchful efforts, by authority never in abeyance
and never aggressive, to ‘the joy of self-control,’ the delight of proud
chivalric obedience which will hail a command as an opportunity for
service. It is a happy thing that the ‘difficult’ children who are the
readiest to resist a direct command are often the quickest to respond to
the stimulus of an idea. The presentation of quickening ideas is itself a
delicate art, which I have, however, considered elsewhere.
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