School educationMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
School education
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Education -- Curricula; Education -- Philosophy
=‘Fate’ and ‘Free-will.’=—This is the freedom which a child enjoys who
has the confidence of his parents as to his comings and goings and
childish doings, and who is all the time aware of their authority. He is
brought up in the school proper for a being whose life is conditioned by
‘fate’ and ‘free-will.’ He has liberty, that is, with a sense of _must_
behind it to relieve him of that unrest which comes with the constant
effort of decision. He is free to do as he ought, but knows quite well in
his secret heart that he is not free to do that which he ought not. The
child who, on the contrary, grows up with no strong sense of authority
behind all his actions, but who receives many exhortations to be good and
obedient and what not, is aware that he may choose either good or evil,
he may obey or not obey, he may tell the truth or tell a lie; and, even
when he chooses aright, he does so at the cost of a great deal of nervous
wear and tear. His parents have removed from him the support of their
authority in the difficult choice of right-doing, and he is left alone
to make that most trying of all efforts, the effort of decision. Is the
distinction between being free to choose the right at one’s own option,
and not free to do the wrong, too subtle to be grasped, too elusive to be
practical? It may be so, but it is precisely the distinction which we are
aware of in our own lives so far as we keep ourselves consciously under
the divine governance. We are free to go in the ways of right living, and
have the happy sense of liberty of choice, but the ways of transgressors
are hard. We are aware of a restraining hand in the present, and of sure
and certain retribution in the future. Just this delicate poise is to be
aimed at for the child. He must be treated with full confidence, and must
feel that right-doing is his own free choice, which his parents trust him
to make; but he must also be very well aware of the deterrent force in
the background, watchful to hinder him when he would do wrong.
=The Component Parts of Masterly Inactivity.=—We have seen that
authority, good humour, confidence, both self-confidence and confidence
in the children, are all contained in masterly inactivity, but these are
not all the parts of that whole. A sound mind in a sound body is another
factor. If the sound body is unattainable, anyway, get the sound mind.
Let not the nervous, anxious, worried mother think that this easy, happy
relation with her children is for her. She may be the best mother in the
world, but the thing that her children will get from her in these vexed
moods is a touch of her nervousness—most catching of complaints. She
will find them fractious, rebellious, unmanageable, and will be slow to
realise that it is her fault; not the fault of her act but of her state.
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