Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and PerseveranceSmiles, Samuel
Philosophy
Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and Perseverance
Smiles, Samuel
Conduct of life
Self-discipline and self-control are the beginnings of practical wisdom;
and these must have their root in self-respect. Hope springs from
it—hope, which is the companion of power, and the mother of success; for
whoso hopes strongly has within him the gift of miracles. The humblest
may say, “To respect myself, to develop myself—this is my true duty in
life. An integral and responsible part of the great system of society, I
owe it to society and to its Author not to degrade or destroy either my
body, mind, or instincts. On the contrary, I am bound to the best of my
power to give to those parts of my constitution the highest degree of
perfection possible. I am not only to suppress the evil, but to evoke
the good elements in my nature. And as I respect myself, so am I equally
bound to respect others, as they on their part are bound to respect me.”
Hence mutual respect, justice, and order, of which law becomes the
written record and guarantee.
Self-respect is the noblest garment with which a man may clothe
himself—the most elevating feeling with which the mind can be inspired.
One of Pythagoras’s wisest maxims, in his ‘Golden Verses,’ is that with
which he enjoins the pupil to “reverence himself.” Borne up by this high
idea, he will not defile his body by sensuality, nor his mind by servile
thoughts. This sentiment, carried into daily life, will be found at the
root of all the virtues—cleanliness, sobriety, chastity, morality, and
religion. “The pious and just honouring of ourselves,” said Milton, “may
be thought the radical moisture and fountain-head from whence every
laudable and worthy enterprise issues forth.” To think meanly of one’s
self, is to sink in one’s own estimation as well as in the estimation of
others. And as the thoughts are, so will the acts be. Man cannot aspire
if he look down; if he will rise, he must look up. The very humblest may
be sustained by the proper indulgence of this feeling. Poverty itself
may be lifted and lighted up by self-respect; and it is truly a noble
sight to see a poor man hold himself upright amidst his temptations, and
refuse to demean himself by low actions.
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