Senescence, the Last Half of LifeHall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Science
Senescence, the Last Half of Life
Hall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Geriatrics
The remarkable merit of this book that made it something of a sensation
through all western Europe ten years ago is the masterly descriptions
of the state of mind of women of a certain type, and perhaps to some
extent of all, at the turn of life. While there is not a phrase in it
that could shock the most fastidious, it is evident throughout that
the author’s soul is permeated with a sex consciousness that finds
numberless indirect expressions and that she knows life and man chiefly
from this standpoint, condones most of woman’s errors, advises her
friends to courses that convention forbids, etc. No one ever began to
write such a book, not even Octave Feuillet in his _La Crise_. It all
reads like a marvelous confession of things no woman ever said before
or could say to a man. She says:
Somebody should found a vast and charitable sisterhood for
women between forty and fifty, a kind of refuge for the victims
of the years of transition, for during that time women would be
happier in voluntary exile or at any rate entirely separated
from the other sex.... We are all more or less mad, even though
we struggle to make others think us sane.
There are moments when I envy every living creature who has the
right to pair--either from hate or from habit. I am alone and
shut out.
Women’s doctors may be as clever and sly as they please but
they will never learn any of the things women confide to each
other. Between the sexes there lies not only a deep, eternal
hostility but the involuntary abyss of a complete lack of
reciprocal comprehension.
It would be better for woman if she walked barefoot over
red-hot ploughshares for the pain she would suffer would be
slight, indeed, compared to that which she must feel when, with
a smile on her lips, she leaves her own youth behind and enters
the region of despair we call growing old.
It may safely be said that on the whole surface of the earth
not one man exists who really knows woman. If a woman took
infinite pains to reveal herself to a husband or a lover just
as she really is, he would think she was suffering from some
incurable mental disease. A few of us indicate our true natures
in hysterical outbreaks, fits of bitterness and suspicion, but
this involuntary frankness is generally discounted by some
subtle deceit.
If men suspected what took place in a woman’s inner life after
forty, they would avoid us like the plague or knock us in the
head like mad dogs.
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