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I am not about to attack or defend this impulse. I want you only to feel
how it lies at the root of effort; especially of all modern effort. It
is the gratification of vanity which is, with us, the stimulus of toil
and balm of repose; so closely does it touch the very springs of life
that the wounding of our vanity is always spoken of (and truly) as in its
measure _mortal_; we call it “mortification,” using the same expression
which we should apply to a gangrenous and incurable bodily hurt. And
although a few of us may be physicians enough to recognise the various
effect of this passion upon health and energy, I believe most honest men
know, and would at once acknowledge, its leading power with them as a
motive. The seaman does not commonly desire to be made captain only
because he knows he can manage the ship better than any other sailor on
board. He wants to be made captain that he may be _called_ captain. The
clergyman does not usually want to be made a bishop only because he
believes that no other hand can, as firmly as his, direct the diocese
through its difficulties. He wants to be made bishop primarily that he
may be called “My Lord.” And a prince does not usually desire to
enlarge, or a subject to gain, a kingdom, because he believes no one else
can as well serve the State, upon its throne; but, briefly, because he
wishes to be addressed as “Your Majesty,” by as many lips as may be
brought to such utterance.
This, then, being the main idea of “advancement in life,” the force of it
applies, for all of us, according to our station, particularly to that
secondary result of such advancement which we call “getting into good
society.” We want to get into good society, not that we may have it, but
that we may be seen in it; and our notion of its goodness depends
primarily on its conspicuousness.
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