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The second thing which you may make sure of is, that however good you may
be, you have faults; that however dull you may be, you can find out what
some of them are; and that however slight they may be, you had better
make some—not too painful, but patient—effort to get quit of them. And
so far as you have confidence in me at all, trust me for this, that how
many soever you may find or fancy your faults to be, there are only two
that are of real consequence,—Idleness and Cruelty. Perhaps you may be
proud. Well, we can get much good out of pride, if only it be not
religious. Perhaps you may be vain; it is highly probable; and very
pleasant for the people who like to praise you. Perhaps you are a little
envious: that is really very shocking; but then—so is everybody else.
Perhaps, also, you are a little malicious, which I am truly concerned to
hear, but should probably only the more, if I knew you, enjoy your
conversation. But whatever else you may be, you must not be useless, and
you must not be cruel. If there is any one point which, in six thousand
years of thinking about right and wrong, wise and good men have agreed
upon, or successively by experience discovered, it is that God dislikes
idle and cruel people more than any others:—that His first order is,
“Work while you have light;” and His second, “Be merciful while you have
mercy.”
“Work while you have light,” especially while you have the light of
morning. There are few things more wonderful to me than that old people
never tell young ones how precious their youth is. They sometimes
sentimentally regret their own earlier days; sometimes prudently forget
them; often foolishly rebuke the young, often more foolishly indulge,
often most foolishly thwart and restrain; but scarcely ever warn or watch
them. Remember, then, that I, at least, have warned _you_, that the
happiness of your life, and its power, and its part and rank in earth or
in heaven, depend on the way you pass your days now. They are not to be
sad days: far from that, the first duty of young people is to be
delighted and delightful; but they are to be in the deepest sense solemn
days. There is no solemnity so deep, to a rightly-thinking creature, as
that of dawn. But not only in that beautiful sense, but in all their
character and method, they are to be solemn days. Take your Latin
dictionary, and look out “solennis,” and fix the sense of the word well
in your mind, and remember that every day of your early life is ordaining
irrevocably, for good or evil, the custom and practice of your soul;
ordaining either sacred customs of dear and lovely recurrence, or
trenching deeper and deeper the furrows for seed of sorrow. Now,
therefore, see that no day passes in which you do not make yourself a
somewhat better creature: and in order to do that, find out, first, what
you are now. Do not think vaguely about it; take pen and paper, and
write down as accurate a description of yourself as you can, with the
date to it.
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