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Then, besides this more delicate work, resolve to do every day some that
is useful in the vulgar sense. Learn first thoroughly the economy of the
kitchen; the good and bad qualities of every common article of food, and
the simplest and best modes of their preparation: when you have time, go
and help in the cooking of poorer families, and show them how to make as
much of everything as possible, and how to make little, nice; coaxing and
tempting them into tidy and pretty ways, and pleading for well-folded
table-cloths, however coarse, and for a flower or two out of the garden
to strew on them. If you manage to get a clean table-cloth, bright
plates on it, and a good dish in the middle, of your own cooking, you may
ask leave to say a short grace; and let your religious ministries be
confined to that much for the present.
Again, let a certain part of your day (as little as you choose, but not
to be broken in upon) be set apart for making strong and pretty dresses
for the poor. Learn the sound qualities of all useful stuffs, and make
everything of the best you can get, whatever its price. I have many
reasons for desiring you to do this,—too many to be told just now,—trust
me, and be sure you get everything as good as can be: and if, in the
villainous state of modern trade, you cannot get it good at any price,
buy its raw material, and set some of the poor women about you to spin
and weave, till you have got stuff that can be trusted: and then, every
day, make some little piece of useful clothing, sewn with your own
fingers as strongly as it can be stitched; and embroider it or otherwise
beautify it moderately with fine needlework, such as a girl may be proud
of having done. And accumulate these things by you until you hear of
some honest persons in need of clothing, which may often too sorrowfully
be; and, even though you should be deceived, and give them to the
dishonest, and hear of their being at once taken to the pawnbroker’s,
never mind that, for the pawnbroker must sell them to some one who has
need of them. That is no business of yours; what concerns you is only
that when you see a half-naked child, you should have good and fresh
clothes to give it, if its parents will let it be taught to wear them.
If they will not, consider how they came to be of such a mind, which it
will be wholesome for you beyond most subjects of inquiry to ascertain.
And after you have gone on doing this a little while, you will begin to
understand the meaning of at least one chapter of your Bible, Proverbs
xxxi., without need of any laboured comment, sermon, or meditation.
In these, then (and of course in all minor ways besides, that you can
discover in your own household), you must be to the best of your strength
usefully employed during the greater part of the day, so that you may be
able at the end of it to say, as proudly as any peasant, that you have
not eaten the bread of idleness.
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