Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter AmmonBelgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
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Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter Ammon
Belgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
Siwah Oasis (Egypt)
One evening rather late I was bathing at Ein Tamousy, swimming
round the spring without making much noise. Suddenly I looked up
and saw a large crowd of girls—a wedding party—standing on the
path above. It was most awkward. I splashed loudly, but they were
singing and talking so noisily that they did not hear. Eventually one
of them saw me and screamed out that there was a jinn in the spring,
whereupon the whole crowd fled shrieking into the gardens, leaving the
bride’s wedding garment lying on the ground. I hastily slipped out,
clutched my clothes and dressed hurriedly behind some palm trees,
from whence I watched the party cautiously returning, one by one,
to see whether the monster had disappeared.
Meanwhile the bridegroom collects his friends and summons the Fiki;
carpets are spread in the courtyard of his house, which is illuminated
with candles and lanterns, and dishes of food are set before the
guests. As soon as the marriage contract is settled each guest seizes
as much food of any sort as he can possibly hold in his hand and
crams it into his mouth; the more he eats the more he is supposed
to show his friendship for the bridegroom. The usual tea generally
follows. At midnight the bridegroom’s friends and relations—men,
women and children—carrying lanterns and flaring torches, walk in
procession through the narrow streets to the house of the bride and
demand her from her father.
On the return of the bride from her bath she is taken by her mother and
hidden in an upper room of the house. When the bridegroom’s family
have arrived they collect outside the door and call out, “Bring
out the bride, the gallant groom awaits her.” The girl’s family
answer, “We have lost her, we have lost her.” Then “Find her,
the bridegroom is getting impatient,” and the answer is, “She
is asleep, still sleeping.” Then the bridegroom’s family say,
“Go, wake her, and bring her to her man.” Then the women of the
bride’s house weep and scream, and there is a mock fight between the
families. The men flourish their sticks and sometimes actually strike
each other, but eventually the girl is produced and handed over to the
bridegroom’s family by her father. The mock capture of the bride
and the pretended resistance is possibly a survival of marriage by
conquest, or possibly it is meant to denote excessive modesty on the
part of the bride. If one inquires the reason the Siwans reply that
it has been the custom “min zamaan,” and nobody is any the wiser.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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