Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter AmmonBelgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
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Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter Ammon
Belgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
Siwah Oasis (Egypt)
As in most Eastern countries when an Arab marries he pays “marriage
money” to the parents or guardians of the bride. So a daughter is
a source of riches to her parents if she is attractive enough to be
worth a handsome dowry. The amount varies on the Western Desert from
about five to a hundred pounds, according to the age, appearance and
position of the girl. Half is paid on marriage, and the remainder is
paid later by instalments, and it is liable to be forfeited if the
wife does not behave well, but if the husband divorces the wife he
must pay up the residue of the money to her parents. This makes a man
very careful in the choice of a wife. In many ways the plan of buying
a wife on the instalment system is a good one. Arabs have more freedom
in these matters than many other Orientals. Women are not veiled, and
men and girls have plenty of opportunities of seeing each other, and
even speaking together, before marriage, though the actual negotiations
are always carried out by a third person representing each party. Arabs
rarely have more than two wives, though their religion allows them to
have four, and divorce is not so very common among them. The women have
a certain amount of influence which they exert without the men quite
knowing it, but although their position is better than that of the
Egyptian women, and infinitely better than that of Siwan women, they
have a very hard time. They weave wool and make tents and carpets;
they milk the flocks and make butter and cheese; they grind corn
on rough mill-stones for making bread; they fetch water, often from
a well many miles distant; and they collect wood every day for the
camp fires; all this in addition to looking after their children and
cooking. Mohammedan women of all classes are not expected to concern
themselves with religion; they are not allowed to enter mosques, except
on one day of the year, and during seven years in the Sudan and Egypt
I only twice saw a Mohammedan woman praying in public. There are very
definite social divisions among the Arabs, especially among their
women. The wives of respectable Arabs never associate with or speak
to women whose morals are considered doubtful. These ladies of the
_demi-monde_ inhabit tents, generally on the outskirts of the camps,
and are conspicuous, as in every part of the world, by the brilliant
colours of their clothes, and their many ornaments.
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