Sketches of social life in IndiaBuckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
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Sketches of social life in India
Buckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
British -- India -- Social life and customs; India -- Social life and customs
There are very few native gentlemen who care to meet their European
brethren at the dinner-table, and they, therefore, seldom appear at the
Government House dinner-parties. It is not that our native friends,
especially of the wealthy and educated classes, do not appreciate a
dinner in the English or European style, but, for reasons which it is
not easy to explain satisfactorily, they seem to prefer to indulge
themselves with such meals in the privacy of their own houses. It has
also been considered advisable, of late years, not to invite native
gentlemen to the balls at Government House. The reason for this can be
put in a very simple form. The native gentleman does not bring his wife
or daughters to the dance, and he himself does not dance. Therefore his
presence in a ball-room is unnecessary. This explanation does not cover
the whole of the case, but it is sufficient for our present purpose.
Almost everyone knows that native ideas on the subject of dancing differ
almost entirely from our own. Perhaps it may be permissible to mention
one very notable exception to ordinary native habits in the matter of
dancing. We refer to a young Rajah, the ruler of a semi-independent
province, who has had the good fortune to be brought up under most
judicious and capable English tutors and guardians. This young prince is
equally good at polo and rackets and lawn-tennis, and most other
European sports. He is a first-rate shot and a very fair horseman. In a
ball-room his success is unmistakeable, and as he has the manners of an
English gentleman (than which we can offer no higher compliment), he is
also fortunate in having so mastered all the difficulties of waltzing,
that it is generally understood that he is accepted by the best dancers
in a ball-room as a very welcome partner. He wears a sort of
semi-military costume, with a velvet tunic slightly braided with gold,
and it would be difficult to find any man more thoroughly conversant
with all social etiquette, or more familiar with the colloquial niceties
of the English language.
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