Sketches of social life in IndiaBuckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
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Sketches of social life in India
Buckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
British -- India -- Social life and customs; India -- Social life and customs
In order, therefore, to suit the tastes of the great majority of the
native gentlemen who wish to display their loyalty, the Viceroy gives
several evening parties, which are known as “at homes”; and these are
varied by garden-parties in the gardens adjoining Government House,
which take place about sunset, and are continued until dark, when the
grounds and adjacent buildings are lit up with a brilliant illumination.
The “at homes” take place indoors, and as there is no dancing or music
they are not very lively entertainments; but an “at home” everywhere
depends chiefly on the capacity of those who are invited to entertain
themselves from their own resources, and this element is not strong
amongst our native friends. At a garden-party they are much more at ease
and happy. They can bring their little grand-children to the
garden-party and see the pleasure which the children enjoy, and the
admiration which they sometimes attract. This is rather a curious
feature in native society. The grandfather cannot bring out his wife or
his daughter, according to native usage, so he appears in charge of his
grand-children. The grandfather himself may be of the mature age of
forty-five. His married daughter is perhaps about twenty-five, and the
grand-children are usually under ten years of age. Little native girls
of that age are exceedingly picturesque, and often absolutely pretty,
but about that age they are married, and withdrawn from the gaze of the
outer world. Certainly the customs and habits of our native friends are
mysterious; but there is no occasion to pity them because they firmly
believe that though their ways are not as our ways, they are in every
respect much preferable and superior to those of the European strangers.
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