Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
History
Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
She became timid and dependent as they grew up and she found them
adorned with new fashions and ways which she did not know; she gave
herself up to their guidance with an appealing kind of diffidence; was
tremulous over her ignorance of the novel fashions which made them so
charming. Yet, when the exactions of her position came upon her, she
calmly took the lead, and, by her instinctive dignity, her wisdom, and
her force, eclipsed them all as naturally as the full moon in heaven
dims the stars.
Such in part was the mistress. As to the master himself, it is hard
to generalize. Yet there were indeed certain generic characteristics,
whether he was grave and severe, or jovial and easy. There was the
foundation of a certain pride based on self-respect and consciousness
of power. There were nearly always the firm mouth with its strong
lines, the calm, placid, direct gaze, the quiet speech of one who
is accustomed to command and have his command obeyed; there was a
contemplative expression due to much communing alone, with weighty
responsibilities resting upon him; there was absolute self-confidence,
and often a look caused by tenacity of opinion. There was not a
doubtful line in the face nor a doubtful tone in the voice; his
opinions were convictions; he was a partisan to the backbone; and
not infrequently he was incapable of seeing more than one side. This
prevented breadth, but gave force. He was proud, but rarely haughty
except to dishonor. To that he was inexorable. He believed in God, he
believed in his wife, he believed in his blood. He was chivalrous, he
was generous, he was usually incapable of fear or of meanness. To be a
Virginia gentleman was the first duty; it embraced being a Christian
and all the virtues. He lived as one; he left it as a heritage to
his children. He was fully appreciative of both the honors and the
responsibilities of his position. He believed in a democracy, but
understood that the absence of a titled aristocracy had to be supplied
by a class more virtuous than he believed any aristocracy to be. He
purposed in his own person to prove that this was practicable. He
established the fact that it was. This and other responsibilities made
him grave. He had inherited gravity from his father and grandfather.
The latter had been a performer in the greatest work of modern times,
with the shadow of the scaffold over him if he failed. The former had
faced the weighty problems of the new government, with many unsolved
questions ever to answer. He himself faced problems not less grave.
The greatness of the past, the time when Virginia had been the mighty
power of the New World, loomed ever above him. It increased his
natural conservatism. He saw the change that was steadily creeping
on. The conditions that had given his class their power and prestige
had altered. The fields were worked down, and agriculture that had
made his class rich no longer paid. The cloud was already gathering in
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account