Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
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Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
What she was, only her husband divined, and even he stood before her in
dumb, half-amazed admiration, as he might before the inscrutable vision
of a superior being. What she really was, was known only to God. Her
life was one long act of devotion,--devotion to God, devotion to her
husband, devotion to her children, devotion to her servants, to her
friends, to the poor, to humanity. Nothing happened within the range
of her knowledge that her sympathy did not reach and her charity and
wisdom did not ameliorate. She was the head and front of the church;
an unmitred bishop _in partibus_, more effectual than the vestry
or deacons, more earnest than the rector; she managed her family,
regulated her servants, fed the poor, nursed the sick, consoled the
bereaved. Who knew of the visits she paid to the cabins of her sick
and suffering servants! often, at the dead of night, “slipping down”
the last thing to see that her directions were carried out; with her
own hands administering medicines or food; ever by her cheeriness
inspiring new hope, by her strength giving courage, by her presence
awaking faith; telling in her soft voice to dying ears the story of
the suffering Saviour; with her hope soothing the troubled spirit, and
lighting with her own faith the path down into the valley of the dark
shadow. What poor person was there, however inaccessible the cabin,
that was sick or destitute and knew not her charity! Who that was
bereaved that had not her sympathy!
The training of her children was her work. She watched over them,
inspired them, led them, governed them; her will impelled them; her
word to them, as to her servants, was law. She reaped the reward.
If she admired them, she was too wise to let them know it; but her
sympathy and tenderness were theirs always, and they worshipped her.
There was something in seeing the master and mistress obeyed by the
plantation and looked up to by the neighborhood which inspired the
children with a reverence akin to awe which is not known at this
present time. It was not till the young people were grown that this
reverence lost the awe and became based only upon affection and
admiration. Then, for the first time, they dared to jest with her;
then, for the first time, they took in that she had been like them
once, young and gay and pleasure-loving, with coquetries and maidenly
ways, with lovers suing for her; and that she still took pleasure in
the recollection,--this gentle, classic, serious mother among her tall
sons and radiant daughters. How she blushed as they laughed at her and
teased her to tell of her conquests, her confusion making her look
younger and prettier than they remembered her, and opening their eyes
to the truth of what their father had told them so often, that not one
of them could be as beautiful as she.
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