(1) For man and woman to lie together on the earth, since this is
thought to defile Ale. Among Kalabari indeed the idea is carried so
far that no woman is allowed, under any circumstances, to seat herself
upon the ground. In the absence of stool or convenient tree-trunk she
must stand. As already mentioned, according to chief Amade Onyeche, the
position adopted by Etche Ibo, when no bed, mat or cloth is available,
is for the woman to stand bending forward at right angles from the
waist, while her lover stands immediately behind.
(2) Connection is absolutely forbidden during the hours of daylight, or
even at night time when a light is burning in the room; also at any
time in the bush or in a farm, where there is no house.
(3) It is the height of impropriety for a man to have relations with a
woman who is not clothed in the prescribed custom.
(4) For a husband to attempt to view the genital organs of his wife is
regarded as so serious an offence as to be considered valid ground for
divorce. In a case brought before me in the Degama Native Court, the
claim ran: ‘To demand freedom of marriage on account of peeping.’
In every Mbari house yet visited, however, figures were seen modelled
with the obvious purpose of expressing a breach of one or other of
these rules. In most of the buildings groups were found in which the
feminine figure was shown partially lying on the ground--in a position
impossible to any human anatomy and therefore, it would seem, so posed
as intentionally to express direct rebellion against the generally
accepted rules of decency.
An official of high rank, who was the first Government representative
to visit this region, described to me a shrine which he saw about
twelve years ago, near Ingaw in Owerri District, where certain points
were even more naïvely depicted than by those erected in the present
day. Among the more noticeable groups were men in the act of copulating
with a sheep and antelope respectively. As regards the latter animal,
it is not without interest to recall that, according to several
accounts from well-informed sources, ancient Yoruba custom ordained
that, after the kill of his first antelope, a young hunter must have
connection with the still warm form. Possibly some such rule obtained,
or maybe even yet exists, in these regions.
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