Some Phases of Sexual Morality and Church Discipline in Colonial New EnglandAdams, Charles Francis
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Some Phases of Sexual Morality and Church Discipline in Colonial New England
Adams, Charles Francis
Sexual ethics
So far the relations then prevailing between the young of the two sexes
may have been, and probably were, innocent enough, and nothing more needs
be said of them; but coming now to the facts revealed in the church
records, I venture to doubt the correctness of the inference as to general
laxity which would naturally be drawn from them. The situation as respects
sexual morality which prevailed in New England during the eighteenth
century seems to me to have been peculiar rather than bad. In other words,
though there was much incontinence, that incontinence was not promiscuous;
and this statement brings me at once to the necessary consideration of
another recognized and well-established custom in the more ordinary and
less refined New England life of the last century, which has been
considered beneath what is known as the dignity of history to notice, and
to which, accordingly, no reference is made by Palfrey or Barry, or, so
far as I know, by any of the standard authorities: and yet, unless I am
greatly mistaken, it is to this carefully ignored usage or custom that we
must look for an explanation of the greater part of the confessions
recorded in the annals of the churches. I refer, of course, to the
practice known as "bundling."
I do not propose here to go into a description of "bundling,"[18] or to
attempt to trace its origin or the extent to which it prevailed in New
England during the last century. All this has been sufficiently done in
the little volume on the subject prepared by Dr. H. R. Stiles, and
published some twenty years ago. For my present purpose it is only
necessary for me to say that the practice of "bundling" has long been one
of the standing taunts or common-place indictments against New England,
and has been supposed to indicate almost the lowest conceivable state of
sexual immorality;[19] but, on the other hand, it may safely be asserted
that "bundling" was, as a custom, neither so vicious nor so immoral as is
usually supposed; nor did it originate in, nor was it peculiar to, New
England. It was a practice growing out of the social and industrial
conditions of a primitive people, of simple, coarse manners and small
means. Two young persons proposed to marry. They and their families were
poor; they lived far apart from each other; they were at work early and
late all the week. Under these circumstances Saturday evening and Sunday
were the recognized time for meeting. The young man came to the house of
the girl after Saturday's sun-down, and they could see each other until
Sunday afternoon, when he had to go back to his own home and work. The
houses were small, and every nook in them occupied; and in order that the
man might not be turned out of doors, or the two be compelled to sit up
all night at a great waste of lights and fuel, and that they might at the
same time be in each other's company, they were "bundled" up together on a
bed, in which they lay side by side and partially clothed. It goes without
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