Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
Again, if absolute Sovereignty be not necessary in a State, how comes it
to be so in a Family? Or if in a Family why not in a State; since no
Reason can be alledged for the one that will not hold more strongly for
the other? If the Authority of the Husband, so far as it extends, is
sacred and inalienable, why not that of the Prince? The Domestick
Sovereign is without Dispute elected, and the Stipulations and Contract
are mutual; is it not then partial in Men to the last Degree, to contend
for, and practise that Arbitrary Dominion in their Families, which they
abhor and exclaim against in the State? For if Arbitrary Power is evil
in it self, and an improper Method of Governing Rational and Free
Agents, it ought not to be practis’d any where; nor is it less, but
rather more mischievous in Families than in Kingdoms, by how much
100,000 Tyrants are worse than one. What though a Husband can’t deprive
a Wife of Life without being responsible to the Law, he may, however, do
what is much more grievous to a generous Mind, render Life miserable,
for which she has no Redress, scarce Pity, which is afforded to every
other Complainant, it being thought a Wife’s Duty to suffer every thing
without Complaint. If _all Men are born Free_, how is it that all Women
are born Slaves? As they must be, if the being subjected to the
_inconstant, uncertain, unknown, arbitrary Will_ of Men, be the _perfect
Condition of Slavery_? And, if the Essence of Freedom consists, as our
Masters say it does, in having a _standing Rule to live by_? And why is
Slavery so much condemn’d and strove against in one Case, and so highly
applauded, and held so necessary and so sacred in another?
’Tis true, that _GOD_ told _Eve_ after the Fall, that _her Husband
should Rule over her_: And so it is, that he told _Esau_ by the Mouth of
_Isaac_ his Father, that he should _serve_ his _younger Brother_, and
should in Time, and when he was strong enough to do it, _break the Yoke
from off his Neck_. Now, why one Text should be a Command any more than
the other, and not both of them be Predictions only; or why the former
should prove _Adam_’s Natural Right to Rule, and much less every Man’s,
any more than the latter is a Proof of _Jacob_’s Right to Rule, and of
_Esau_’s to Rebel, one is yet to learn? The Text in both Cases
foretelling what would be; but neither of them determining what _ought_
to be.
But the Scripture commands _Wives_ to _submit themselves to their own
Husbands_. True; for which St. _Paul_ gives a Mystical Reason (_Eph._ v.
22, _&c._) and St. _Peter_, a Prudential and Charitable one (1 _Pet._
iii.) but neither of them derive that Subjection from the Law of Nature.
Nay, St. _Paul_, as if he foresaw and meant to prevent this Plea, giving
Directions for their Conduct to Women in general, 1 _Tim._ ii. when he
comes to speak of _Subjection_, he changes his Phrase from _Women_,
which denotes the whole Sex, to _Woman_, which in the New Testament is
appropriated to a Wife.
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