Some religious and moral teachings of Al-Ghazzali : $b Being brief extracts from his Ihya-u-Ulum-id-dinGhazzali
Islamic
Some religious and moral teachings of Al-Ghazzali : $b Being brief extracts from his Ihya-u-Ulum-id-din
Ghazzali
Islamic ethics -- Early works to 1800
A fool’s company gives no good, it ends in gloom. Good disposition is
necessary in as much as a man may be wise but be subservient to his
inordinate passion and hence unfit for company. And a sinner and a
heretic are to be avoided for the simple reason that they who have no
fear of the Lord and are regardless of committing forbidden actions are
not to be relied on. Besides contagion will secretly spread and he too
will think of sin lightly and gradually lose power of resisting it. And
a greedy worldling is to be avoided because his company will deaden the
heart in the quest of the kingdom of Heaven.
Alkama on his death bed gave a fine description of a friend. “My son”,
said he, “If you wish to keep company try to find out such a friend who,
when you live with him defends you, adds to your prestige, bears the
load of your hardships, helps you in your doings, counts your virtues,
dissuades you from vices, readily responds to your requests, inquires
himself for your needs when you keep quiet, shows his deep sympathy
in your sufferings, bears witness to your sayings, gives good advice
when you intend to do some work and prefers you to his own self when
difference arises between you and him.” This piece of advice gives the
qualities of a friend in a nutshell. When Caliph Mamun the Abbaside heard
of it, he said, “Where should we find such a friend”. And Yahya replied,
“Alkama’s description means that we should live in retirement.”
Imam Jafar ‘Assadiq’ (the veracious) gives a negative description of a
friend. “Do not keep company with five sorts of men viz: a false man who
deceives you like a mirage; a fool who cannot benefit you, (even if he
tries to do so he would do harm through his foolishness;) a miser who
when you need his help the most, severs himself from you; a coward who
will leave you when you are in danger; a wicked sinner who will sell you
for a piece of bread.”
Sahl of Taster says, “Avoid the company of 3 kinds of men, (1) tyrants
who forget God, (2) Ulamas who practise dissimulation, (3) Sufis who are
ignorant.”
It must be remembered here that the above passages serve as an ideal but
for purposes we should look to the present practical conditions and try
to get as much good as may be had from them. For man’s life seems dreary
when he has no friends. And men are like trees. Some are fruit-bearing
and shady, some are shady only and some are mere thorns and thistles.
Similarly some friends are a blessing both here and hereafter; some are
for worldly gain for the world is a shadow, and some are of no good in
this world and the next as if they are scorpions in human form.
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