Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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"Her health, however, gradually improved and a more normal state
of affairs was brought about, which has continued to the present
day, broken only by periods of abstention, chiefly caused by the
attacks of anemia and menstrual irregularities from which his
wife suffers from time to time. Ordinarily, he enjoys coitus once
or twice in the month, hardly oftener, taking one month with
another. At one time he exemplified in his own person the saying
_omne animal post coitum triste_, but now happily this depression
of spirits is rarely felt. Sometimes he has felt a depression of
spirits, a general discontentedness, before experiencing a strong
erection; in these cases coitus has cleared his spirits. He would
naturally look upon coitus as an evacuation, although he
recognizes the imperfectness of that view. For one thing he is
constantly sorry, viz., that the act gives no pleasure to his
wife, and that he has never been able to induce a crisis with her
by normal means. In this state of affairs, knowing that 'après
coup' she was still unsatisfied, he slipped into the practice of
rubbing the clitoris with his fingers until the emission takes
place. To do this, they assume the position 'ille sub, illa
super.' From his own limited marital experience, he has never
been able to understand the stories of women who masturbate
several times a day, as his wife would be physically incapable
(so he believes) of anything of the kind, and only easily reaches
the crisis in any circumstances during the first few days after
the menstrual flow has ceased. In fine, while agreeing
theoretically with Sir Richard Burton and others that the eastern
style of coitus (directed with a view to the pleasure of your
partner) is the right one, it is one of his standing regrets that
he is unable to practise it. In the place of the twenty minutes
required by the women of India (according to Burton) he is happy
if he can give two or three at the most, much as he would wish to
prolong a pleasure as keen to himself as he could desire it to be
to his dear and excellent spouse."
HISTORY XVII.--R.L., American; aged 43; height, 5 ft. 7 in.;
weight, about 145 lbs.; occupation, teacher; somewhat neurotic; a
slight myopia associated with acute astigmatism and muscular
weakness of the eyes, producing a tendency to migraine. Uric acid
diathesis, producing occasionally severe neuralgia, particularly
in the intestines. These symptoms have been more or less constant
since very early childhood. General health very good. Not
inclined to indulge in athletic sports, but prefers sedentary
occupations and recreations.
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