Our sample-child has not, we will assume, yet got so far as to recognise
and defer to a general rule about cleanliness. Hence it may be said that
his opposition is directed against the nurse as propounding a particular
command, and one which at the moment is excessively unpleasant. It is as
yet not resistance to law as such, but rather to one specific
interference of another will.
At the same time we may detect in some of this early resistance to
authority something of the true rebel-nature, that is to say the love of
lawlessness, and what is worse, perhaps, the obstinate recklessness of
the law-breaker. The very behaviour of a child when another will crosses
and blocks the line of his activity is suggestive of this. The yelling
and other disorderly proceedings, do not they speak of the temper of the
rioter, of the rowdy? And then, the fierce persistence in disobedience
under rebuke, and the wild, wicked determination to face everything
rather than obey, are not these marks of an almost Satanic fierceness of
revolt? The thoroughly naughty child sticks at nothing. Thus a little
offender of four when he was reminded by his sister—two years older—that
he would be shut out from heaven retorted impiously, ‘I don’t care,’
adding: ‘Uncle won’t go—I’ll stay with him’.[192]
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Footnote 192:
My correspondent, discreetly perhaps, does not explain why the uncle
was selected as fellow-outcast.
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This fierce noisy utterance of the disobedient and law-resisting temper
is eminently impressive. Yet it is not the only utterance. If we observe
children who may be said to show on the whole an outward submission to
authority we shall discover signs of secret dissatisfaction and
antagonism. The conflict with rule has not wholly ceased: it has simply
changed its manner of proceeding, physical assault and riotous shouts of
defiance being now exchanged for dialectic attack.
A curious chapter in the psychology of the child which still has to be
written is the account of the various devices by which the astute little
novice called upon to wear the yoke of authority seeks to smooth its
chafing asperities. These devices may, perhaps, be summed up under the
head of “trying it on”.
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