Yet I think that we ought to be very slow to pronounce any child
unmanageable. I know full well that in the case of these small growing
things there are all kinds of hidden physical commotions which breed
caprices, ruffle the temper, and make them the opposite of docile. The
peevish child who will do nothing, will listen to no suggestion, is
assuredly a difficult subject to deal with. But such moodiness and
cross-grainedness springing from bodily disturbances will be allowed for
by the discerning mother, who will be too wise to bring the severer
measures of discipline to bear on a child when subject to their malign
influence. Waiving these disturbing factors, however, I should say that
a good part, certainly more than one half, of the difficulty of training
children is due to our clumsy bungling modes of going to work.
Sensible persons know that there is a good and a bad way of approaching
a child. The wrong ways of trying to constrain children are, alas,
numerous. I am not writing an ‘advice to parents,’ and am not called on
therefore to deal with the much-disputed question of the rightness and
wrongness of corporal punishment. Slaps may be needful in the early
stages, even though they do lead to little tussles. A mother assures me
that these battles with her several children have all fallen between the
ages of sixteen months and two years. It is, however, conceivable that
such fights might be avoided altogether; yet a man should be chary of
dogmatising on this delicate matter.
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