But there is still another, and some will think a more conclusive way of
satisfying ourselves of the reality of the play-illusion. The child
finds himself confronted by the unbelieving adult who questions what he
says about the doll’s crying and so forth. One little girl, aged one
year and nine months, when asked by her mother how her doll, who had
lost his arms, ate his dinner without hands, quickly changed the
subject. She did not apparently like having difficulties brought into
her happy play-world. But the true tenacious faith shows itself later
when the child understands these sceptical questionings of others, and
sees that they are poking fun at his play and his day-dreamings. Such
cruel quizzings of his make-believe are apt to cut him to the quick. I
have heard of children who will cry if a stranger suddenly enters the
nursery when they are hard at play, and shows himself unsympathetic and
critical.
Play may produce not only this vivid imaginative realisation at the
time, but a sort of mild permanent illusion. Sometimes it is a
toy-horse, in one case communicated to me it was a funny-looking
toy-lion, more frequently it is the human effigy, the doll, which as the
result of successive acts of imaginative vivification gets taken up into
the relation of permanent companion and pet. Clusters of happy
associations gather about it, investing it with a lasting vitality and
character. A mother once asked her boy of two and a half years if his
doll was a boy or a girl. He said at first, “A boy,” but presently
correcting himself added, “I think it is a baby”. Here we have a
challenging of the inner conviction by a question, a moment of
reflexion, and as a result of this, an unambiguous confession of faith
that the doll had its place in the living human family.
Here is a more stubborn exhibition on the part of another boy of this
lasting faith in the plaything called out by others’ sceptical attitude.
"When (writes a lady correspondent) he was just over two years old L.
began to speak of a favourite wooden horse (Dobbin) as if it were a real
living creature. ‘No tarpenter (carpenter) made Dobbin,’ he would say,
‘he is not wooden but kin (skin) and bones and Dod (God) made him.’ If
any one said ‘it’ in speaking of the horse his wrath was instantly
aroused, and he would shout indignantly: ‘It! You mutt’ent tay “it,” you
mut tay _he_’. He imagined the horse was possessed of every virtue and
it was strange to see what an influence this creature of his own
imagination exercised over him. If there was anything L. particularly
wished not to do his mother had only to say: ‘Dobbin would like you to
do this,’ and it was done without a murmur."
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