The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and CommentsDroz, Joseph
Philosophy
The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and Comments
Droz, Joseph
Happiness
The influence of fortunate dispositions for this study is chiefly
discernible in men of marked and energetic character. Some are
endowed by nature with such firmness and force of character, that
misfortune cannot shake them. It slides, if I may so speak, over
the surface of their stoical hearts, and the shock of adversity
inspires them almost with a sort of pleasure, calling forth the
conscious feeling of power and independence for resistance. But
we observe the greater number shrinking from affliction, and
even images of sadness, enjoying the present without apparent
consciousness, and forgetting the past without regret. Always
fickle and frivolous, they evade suffering by recklessness and
gayety. The most perfect organization for happiness[4] imparts at
the same time great force to resist the pains of life, and keen
sensibility to enjoy its pleasures. I am aware that great energy
and quick sensibility are generally supposed to be incompatible
qualities; I have, nevertheless, often seen them united. I would
lay down precepts, by which to obtain the combination. By a more
perfect education, it is hoped that, in the ages to come, this
union may become general.
Perhaps some will ask, if he who thus assumes to teach the art
of happiness has himself learned to be constantly happy? Endowed
with a moderate share of philosophy, and aided by favorable
circumstances, I have thus far found the pleasures of life greatly
overbalancing its pains. But who can hope felicity without alloy?
I would not conceal that I have had my share of inquietudes and
regrets; and I have sometimes forgotten my principles. I resemble
the pilot, who gives lessons upon his art after more than one
shipwreck.
LETTER V.
OUR DESIRES.
Whence are our most common sufferings? From desires which surpass
our ability to satisfy them. The ancients relate, that Oromazes
appeared to Usbeck, the virtuous, and said, ‘form a wish, and I
will grant it.’ ‘Source of light,’ replied the sage, ‘I only wish
to limit my desires by those things, which nature has rendered
indispensable.’[6]
Let us not suppose, however, that a negative happiness, a condition
exempt from suffering, is the most fortunate condition to which
we may aspire. They who contend for this gloomy system, have but
poorly studied the nature of man. If he errs in desiring positive
enjoyments, if his highest aim ought to be, to live free from pain,
the caves of the forest conceal those happy beings whom we ought to
choose for our models.
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