The consequence is that, though the native American woman is as
resolute as ever in her own refusal to be a cook or waitress in a
private family, domestic service exists as an institution no less
completely than it exists in Europe, and practically under the same
conditions, save that servants here receive considerably higher wages
than abroad because the demand is greater than the supply. There is
a perpetual wail in all our cities and suburbs that the supply of
competent cooks, and skilled laundresses and maids is so limited, and
well-trained servants can demand practically their own prices. The
conditions of service, however, are the same. That is, the servant
in the household of the free-born is still the servant; and still
the servant in the household where the mistress, who has prospered,
would originally have gone into service had she not been free-born.
For there is no one more prompt than the American housewife to keep a
servant when she can afford one, and the more she is obliged to keep
the prouder is she, though her nervous system may give way under the
strain. By this I do not mean that the servants here are ill-treated.
On the contrary, the consideration shown them is greater, and the
quarters provided for them are far more comfortable on this side of the
water than abroad. Indeed, servants fare nowhere in the world so well
as in the establishments of the well-to-do people of our large cities.
Their bedrooms are suitable and often tasteful, they are attended by
the family physician if ill, they are not overworked, and very slight
checks are put on their liberty. But they are undeniably servants. The
free-born American mistress does not regard her servants as social
equals. She expects them to stand up if they are sitting down when she
enters the room. She expects them to address her sons and daughters as
Mr. Samuel and Miss Fanny, and to be called in turn Maggie or Albertine
(or Thompson or Jones, _à l’anglaise_) without a prefix. She does her
best, in short, to preserve all the forms and all the deference on
the one hand, and the haughtiness or condescension on the other which
govern the relations between servant and mistress abroad.
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