If we have become cosmopolitan in the matter of domestic comfort and
elegance as regards our drawing-rooms, the same is certainly true of
our dining-rooms, and dinner-tables. But here it seems to me that we
are more justly open to criticism on the score of over-exuberance.
That is, the fairly well-to-do class, for the plain people of foreign
blood, and the low liver of native blood, eat almost as indigestible
food, and quite as rapidly and unceremoniously, as the pie and doughnut
nurtured yeoman of original Yankee stock, who thrived in spite of his
diet, and left to his grandchildren the heritage of dyspepsia which
has become nervous prostration in the present generation. It seems as
though our instincts of hospitality have grown in direct ratio with
our familiarity with and adoption of civilized creature comforts,
and any charge of exuberance may doubtless be fairly ascribed to the
national trait of generosity, the abuse of which is after all a noble
blemish. But, on the other hand, facts remain, even after one has given
a pleasing excuse for their existence, and it may be doubted if a
spendthrift is long consoled by the reflection that his impecuniosity
is due to his own disinclination to stint. May it not truthfully be
charged against the reasonably well-to-do American citizen that he has
a prejudice against thrift, especially where the entertainment of his
fellow man or woman is concerned? The rapid growth of wealth and the
comparative facility of becoming rich during the last half century of
our development, has operated against the practice of small economies,
so that we find ourselves now beset by extravagant traditions which we
hesitate to deviate from for fear of seeming mean. Many a man to-day
pays his quarter of a dollar ruefully and begrudgingly to the colored
Pullman car porter at the end of his journey, when he is “brushed off,”
because he cannot bring himself to break the custom which fixed the
fee. It would be interesting to estimate what the grand total of saving
to the American travelling public would have been if ten instead of
twenty-five cents a head had been paid to the tyrant in question since
he first darkened the situation. If not enough to maintain free schools
for the negro, at least sufficient to compel railroad managements to
give their employees suitable wages instead of letting the easy-going
traveller, who has already paid for the privilege of a reserved seat,
pay a premium on that. The exorbitant fees bestowed on waiters is but
another instance of a tendency to be over-generous, which, once reduced
to custom, becomes the severest kind of tax, in that it is likely to
affect the warmest-hearted people.
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