“I dare say, but somehow one can’t help thinking at times that the
effort for effect is too noticeable, and that the real object of
sitting down to dinner in company, agreeable social intercourse, is
consequently lost sight of. If only the very rich were guilty of wanton
display, the answer would be that the rank and file of our well-to-do,
sensible people have very simple entertainments. Unfortunately, while
the very rich are constantly vying to outstrip one another, the
dinner-table and the dinner of the well-to-do American are each growing
more and more complex and elaborate. Perhaps not more so than abroad
among the nobility or people of means; but certainly we have been
Europeanized in this respect to such an extent that, not only is there
practically nothing left for us to learn in the way of being luxurious,
but I am not sure that we are not disposed to convince the rest of the
civilized world that a free-born American, when fully developed, can be
the most luxurious individual on earth.”
Barbara looked a little grave at this. “Everything used to be so ugly
and unattractive a little while ago that I suppose our heads have been
turned,” she answered. “After this I shall make a rule, when we give a
dinner-party, to keep one-half of my table ornaments in the safe as a
rebuke to my vanity. Only if I am to show so much of the tablecloth, I
shall have to buy some with handsome patterns. Don’t you see?”
Perhaps this suggestion that our heads have been turned for the time
being by our national prosperity, and that they will become straight
again in due course of time, is the most sensible view to take of the
situation. There can be no doubt that among well-to-do people, who
would object to be classed in “the smart set,” as the reporters of
social gossip odiously characterize those prominent in fashionable
society in our large cities, the changes in the last thirty years
connected with every-day living, as well as with entertaining, have
all been in the direction of cosmopolitan usage. It is now only a
very old-fashioned or a very blatant person who objects to the use of
evening dress at the dinner-table, or the theatre, as inconsistent
with true patriotism. The dinner-hour has steadily progressed from
twelve o’clock noon until it has halted at seven _post_ meridian, as
the ordinary hour for the most formal meal of the day, with further
postponement to half-past seven or even eight among the fashionable
for the sake of company. The frying-pan and the tea-pot have
ceased to reign supreme as the patron saints of female nutrition,
and the beefsteak, the egg, both cooked and raw, milk and other
flesh-and-blood-producing food are abundantly supplied to the rising
generation of both sexes by the provident parent of to-day. The price
of beef in our large cities has steadily advanced in price until its
use as an article of diet is a serious monster to encounter in the
monthly bills, but the husband and father who is seeking to live
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