The Babees' Book: Medieval Manners for the Young — John Shaqi
The Babees' Book: Medieval Manners for the YoungFurnivall, Frederick James
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The Babees' Book: Medieval Manners for the Young
Furnivall, Frederick James
Etiquette for children and teenagers; Etiquette, Medieval
If he command you to sit in his presence, fulfil his wish at once, and
strive not with another about your seat.
When you are set down, tell no dishonest tale; eschew also, with all
your might, to be scornful; and let your cheer be humble, blithe, and
merry, not chiding as if ye were ready for a fight.
If you perceive that your better is pleased to commend you, rise up
anon and thank him heartily.
If you see your lord and lady speaking of household matters, leave them
alone, for that is courtesy, and interfere not with their doing; but be
ready, without feigning, to do your lord service, and so shall you get
a good name.
Also, to fetch him drink, to hold the light when it is time, and to do
whatsoever ought to be done, look ye be ready; for so shall ye full
soon get a gentle name in nurture. And if you should ask a boon of God,
you can desire no better thing than to be well-mannered.
If your lord is pleased to offer you his own cup to drink, rise when
you take it, and receive it goodly with both your hands, and when you
have done, proffer it to no man else, but render it again to him that
brought it, for in nowise should it be used commonly--so wise men teach
us.
Now must I tell you shortly what you shall do at noon when your lord
goes to his meat. Be ready to fetch him clear water, and some of you
hold the towel for him until he has done, and leave not until he be set
down, and ye have heard grace said. Stand before him until he bids you
sit, and be always ready to serve him with clean hands.
When ye be set, keep your own knife clean and sharp, that so ye may
carve honestly your own meat.
Let courtesy and silence dwell with you, and tell no foul tales to
another.
Cut your bread with your knife and break it not. Lay a clean trencher
before you, and when your pottage is brought, take your spoon and eat
quietly; and do not leave your spoon in the dish, I pray you.
Look ye be not caught leaning on the table, and keep clear of soiling
the cloth.
Do not hang your head over your dish, or in any wise drink with full
mouth.
Keep from picking your nose, your teeth, your nails at meal-time--so we
are taught.
Advise you against taking so muckle meat into your mouth but that ye
may right well answer when men speak to you.
When ye shall drink, wipe your mouth clean with a cloth, and your hands
also, so that you shall not in any way soil the cup, for then shall
none of your companions be loth to drink with you.
Likewise, do not touch the salt in the salt-cellar with any meat; but
lay salt honestly on your trencher, for that is courtesy.
Do not carry your knife to your mouth with food, or hold the meat with
your hands in any wise; and also if divers good meats are brought to
you, look that with all courtesy ye assay of each; and if your dish be
taken away with its meat and another brought courtesy demands that ye
shall let it go and not ask for it back again.
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