Evidently, then, the times demanded that Jesus should save the marriage
law from looseness. The ease of divorce was not unlike that in our own
land to-day. If the teaching of Jesus was needed then it is needed now in
order that marriage may recover its binding solemnity. On general
principles we must all rejoice that Jesus did not give a dubious word on
this sacred matter. It may be doubted whether any man who did not have the
cause of his own pleasure to serve and who was not willing to subordinate
a social law to the superficial joy of his own life, would be willing to
modify the Saviour's teaching. Certainly that teaching has long been the
firm bulwark of the married life. Had Jesus spoken with doubt, or had he
given sanction to easy divorce, what would the results have been? Our
homes would have been builded upon the sands of freakish impulses and of
hasty tempers. But Jesus's word puts rock into the domestic foundation.
When it was given it was met by all of the objections which it still
evokes. Some said that the teaching was extreme in its severity, quite
outdoing the law of Moses in its demands. Others said that rather than to
submit to a bond so unbreakable, it would be better not to marry at all.
Still Jesus did not lower his teaching. God was the author of marriage;
man must not assume to be its destroyer. God takes two persons and makes
them one flesh; man must not cut that vital bond.
Plainly, then, Jesus felt that marriage established a family relationship
which was to resemble other family relationships in its indissolubleness.
How can a man get rid of his brother, or his sister, or his father or
mother, when God has decreed a relation in the flesh that cannot be
severed? One may live apart from brother or sister, or father or mother,
as a matter of convenience or peace; but how can one destroy the
relationship? In spite of angry decrees, is not the brother still a
brother, and do not father and mother remain father and mother in
defiance of all unfilial pronouncements of divorce? In Jesus's view the
second family relationship was as indissoluble as the first. If one were
to argue from a certain standpoint it might be easy to claim that it must
be even more indissoluble. A man does not choose his first home. It
represents a necessity against which he may not strive. But he does choose
his second home, and it represents a union for which he is himself
distinctly responsible. Why should a man be allowed to divorce himself
from the home which is founded by his liberty while still being inexorably
bound to the home which was founded without his choice? Jesus taught that
the very constitution of society, as resting on the word of God, demanded
that the second home be as sacredly unbreakable as the first. The "one
flesh" must not be severed in either case.
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