Confucius said: “When a ruler wishes to teach his people to love their
parents, he does not go to their family every day to teach them. He
teaches them by his showing reverence to all old people. In the same
manner he teaches his people to show respect to their elders by doing
so first; and to be loyal to their ruler by his doing duty to his
superiors first.
“The _Shih Ching_ says, ‘The behaviour of the ruler is so good that he
is loved by the people as their parent.’ A ruler could not have been
so loved by his people had he not possessed the highest virtue.”
CHAPTER XIV
AMPLIFICATION OF “RAISING THE REPUTATION”
Confucius said: “A true gentleman is always filial to his parents, and
in order to fulfil his duty to them to the fullest extent, he also
serves his August Master with patriotism. He always shows reverence
to his elder brothers, and in order to fulfil his duty to them to the
fullest extent, he does the same towards every one who is older than he.
“As he can maintain order in his family affairs, so he can do the same
in the government. He bases the principle of the government of a State
upon that of a ruling family, and the consequent success will make his
name to be remembered throughout generations to come.”
CHAPTER XV
THE QUESTION OF REMONSTRANCE IN CONNECTION WITH FILIAL DUTY
Tsêng Tzŭ said: “I have heard all that you said about parental love,
filial love, reverence to elders, how to treat parents every day, and
how to please them by making oneself known for good conduct; and now
I will venture to ask you whether it is filial that a son should obey
every command of his father, whether right or wrong?”
“What do you say?—what do you say?” replied Confucius. “Once upon a
time there was a certain Emperor who would have lost his empire through
his wickedness, but that he had seven good ministers who often checked
his illegal actions by strong protests; there was also a feudal baron
who would have lost his feudal estate through wantonness, but for the
fact that he had five good men who often made strong remonstrances to
him; and there was also a statesman who would have brought frightful
calamity upon his family, but for the fact that he had three good
servants who often strongly advised him not to do what he ought not.
“If a man has a good friend to resist him in doing bad actions, he will
have his reputation preserved; so if a father has a son to resist his
wrong commands, he will be saved from committing serious faults.
“When the command is wrong, a son should resist his father, and a
minister should resist his August Master.
“The maxim is, ‘Resist when wrongly commanded.’ Hence how can he be
called filial who obeys his father when he is commanded to do wrong?”
CHAPTER XVI
THE INFLUENCE AND FRUIT OF FILIAL PIETY
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