The good Emperors of old were not only filial to their parents, but
also to the Supreme Father and Mother—that is, Heaven and the Earth.
When an Emperor can live in harmony with his elders, there will be
harmony throughout his dominion between superiors and inferiors; and
when he is filial to the Supreme Father and Mother, he will be blessed
by them.
Although the Emperor is the highest of all ranks, yet he still has some
one to respect. He has his father and elder brothers.
Why do we offer sacrifices to our ancestors in our family shrine?
Because we ought not to forget them. Why must we cultivate our minds
and be circumspect in our actions? Because we do not wish to bring
disgrace upon the name of our ancestors. If we can show respect to them
when we offer them sacrifices in our family shrine, we shall be blessed
by the Supreme Father and Mother. Filiality to parents and reverence to
elders will be known to the Supreme Being, and will be followed by the
people in every part of the world; no place can remain unaffected by
their influence. In the _Shih Ching_ it is said that “from east to west
and from north to south there is no one who does not submit to rule.”
CHAPTER XVII
SERVING THE SOVEREIGN
Confucius said: “A good man always endeavours, while he is in the
service of his sovereign, to express the utmost loyalty during
audience with his August Master, and thinks at his leisure how to
repair any wrong his August Master may have done. He will carry out
any praiseworthy schemes projected by his master, and will correct
any fault which he may commit. In this way a great affection will be
fostered between them.
“Thus in the _Shih Ching_ it is written: ‘Although the minister may be
far away from his master, yet his affection will not be affected by the
distance. He is so attached to him that he thinks of him every day.’”
CHAPTER XVIII
MOURNING FOR ONE’S PARENTS
Confucius said: “When a filial son loses his parent, he, of course,
cannot help crying piteously. He cannot feel happy when he hears music.
He will have no appetite for food, however tempting a savoury. He will
greet no visitor, have no regard for elegance of speech, and will put
on a mourning-dress instead of a beautiful one. All these tell us
the extent of his sorrow for his lost parent. What is meant by the
saying that he must try to eat something after three days from the
death of his parent, though he has no appetite for it? It teaches us
that although we have to show great sorrow for the dead, yet we must
not sacrifice ourselves on their account, and that we must not carry
self-mortification so far as to destroy our life. This is the doctrine
laid down by good men of old. That mourning only extends to the period
of three years shows that there is a limit for our sorrow.
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