The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
CHAPTER IV
THE CHILD—ITS RELIGION
[Sidenote: Three Kinds of Parents.]
[Sidenote: A French Work on Children.]
Probably one of the earliest perplexities that presents itself to
a parent is the question of the child’s religion. And yet it is
doubtful whether in the generality of cases the matter is considered
early enough. There are, evidently, three kinds of parents taking
three separate views of the question. There are those who hold
distinctly materialistic opinions, and who therefore deliberately
decline to enter into the subject at all. They agree with the
sentiments expressed in a French work on children published some
quarter of a century ago in which the following passages occur:
“We may boldly assert that the sense of religion exists no more in
the intelligence of a little child than does the supernatural in
nature.” And again: “In our opinion parents are very much mistaken in
thinking it their duty to instruct their little ones in such things,
which have no real interest for them—as who made them, who created
the world, what is the soul, what is its present and future destiny,
and so forth.”
It is a happiness to believe that few English parents endorse these
views. The extraordinary stir made by an Education Bill, the chief
concern of which was to affect the religious teaching of children, is
evidence of a widespread belief in the necessity of such teaching.
[Sidenote: Careless Parents.]
But, in the second place, there are some parents who are simply
careless. They would be rather shocked at being told that they
themselves were irreligious, but, when they forget all about their
children’s religion, it cannot be supposed that their own is of much
real concern to them.
[Sidenote: Anxious Parents.]
[Sidenote: Early Impressions of Good and Evil.]
Thirdly, there are the parents who desire beyond all things that
their children shall lead religious lives, and are anxious to do
their utmost to start the little feet on the right path. It is this
class of parent who is often perplexed to know what is best. The
difficulties are certainly great. Children differ so widely that what
is good for one child may be harmful for another. But in almost all
cases the tendency is to put off religious teaching too long. The
mind of a very young child—one who would be commonly described as a
baby—has been proved again and again to be remarkably receptive of
evil as well as of good influences and impressions, and the earlier
a baby’s mind can be filled with the very simplest religious truths
the less room there will be for evil, and the greater the likelihood
of a firm belief in truths that have been absorbed almost with the
mother’s milk.
This leads to the question of how far a very young child has
any direct personal religion; any feeling, that is, of a direct
communication even of the most elementary kind between itself and its
GOD without the intervention of any human being.
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