The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
[Sidenote: A Child’s Direct Personal Religion.]
[Sidenote: Religion through the Mother.]
It would probably be true to say that _at first_ this is impossible,
but that at a very early age the sense can be imparted. To quote the
words of a mother who has brought up a number of children in the fear
and love of GOD, personal religion in children “of course begins by
being mixed up with _Mother_, who, if she is a real mother, is to her
babies the representative of warmth, comfort, love, and everything
that they want.” When, in addition to this a child has depended for
months upon its mother for food, and has constantly slept in her
arms, the influence of that mother is so great that her religion
naturally becomes the religion of the child, who accepts every word
she says absolutely. Thus, the “GOD bless you” and the words of
loving prayer which come so often and so naturally to a mother’s lips
are absorbed by the child until its faith in some unconscious way
grows into its life and becomes a real thing between itself and its
GOD.
Thus, it will be seen that there is a certain truth underlying a
statement made by the French author quoted above when he says:
“Children’s reverence and love attaches itself to the human beings
who are kind to them, but to nothing which is invisible or distinct
from their species. Their instinct of finality is wholly objective
and utilitarian.” It is true that in the first instance a baby’s
reverence and love attaches itself to the mother, but to assert
that afterwards it rejects anything invisible or apart from its own
species is to deny the influence of a religious feeling flowing
through the mother to the child, and to limit the power of the Spirit
of GOD who can surely dwell in the heart of a very little child.
An example of the way in which children of very tender years can and
often do grasp the great truths of the religion which they inherit
from their parents has lately been told to the writer by the mother
of the child in question.
[Sidenote: Where She was Heavened.]
She was a little girl of three and a half years old, and was taken
one day by her father into the church in which she had been baptized.
Pointing to the font, he said, “Do you know what happened to you
there?” For a moment the child looked perplexed, and nestling up to
her father said, “_You_ tell me, daddy.” “No,” he replied, “I want
you to tell me.” There was another moment’s hesitation, and then she
looked up at him and very solemnly said, “I was _heavened_ there!”
Probably no answer that she could have made would have been so
comprehensive and so convincing of the real grasp of the truth as
this word her baby intelligence had coined.
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