The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
Another mother tells of a little daughter who has been “a doubting
Thomas from her babyhood.” To her the personality of GOD was very
real, but she refused to accept anything at first through the medium
of another—even of her mother. A good many of her quaint sayings
have been preserved—and her mother still remembers how disconcerting
these often were in the course of a Bible lesson. She would suddenly
break in with “_Why_ was GOD so cruel? I hate Him. Can’t you explain?
I don’t think much of Him if He doesn’t let fathers and mothers
know everything!” At the same time she was seldom willing to accept
much on anyone’s judgment but her own. A little brother shared her
lessons, and often sighed with impatience at her interruptions.
“Oh, R——,” he would say, “I do wish you could get some trust!” When
learning the Catechism this little girl refused to say, “Yes, verily,
so I will.” “No,” she said, “I shan’t say that. I haven’t made up my
mind whether I want to be good or not, and I _certainly_ shan’t say
that.” So for about six months that question was never put to her,
and at last one day she remarked, “I could say that now if you like!”
[Sidenote: Relative Importance of Authorities.]
In both these instances there can be little doubt that no one came in
any way between the child and the Creator, but, on the other hand, a
good many parents consider that there is for some years a difficulty
in the minds of children as to the intervention of human beings
between them and GOD, arising either from their habit of connecting
their prayers and religious experiences mainly with their mother or
nurse, or from a curious inability to realise the supremacy of the
Almighty. An example of this latter difficulty may be given in the
words of a little child in Yorkshire who was overheard to say to a
companion, “Don’t do that or perhaps GOD will see you, and He’ll tell
the Vicar.”
[Sidenote: Children’s Prayers.]
Much has been written by others about children’s prayers, but it is
impossible to ignore what is to them the most real and important part
of their religion. A lady living in Cheltenham says: “I think that
children get a belief in prayer very early. My youngest girl the
other day looked tired, so I said that she had better not come to the
evening service. ‘Oh, but I must,’ she said, ‘I want to pray for Miss
Beale.’” This was at the beginning of that well-known lady’s fatal
illness.
[Sidenote: Implicit Faith in Prayer.]
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