The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children — John Shaqi
The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
As to the number and kind of services to which children should be
taken it is impossible to lay down a general rule. Where “Children’s
Services” are held by a man who has the gift of attracting and
interesting children, the difficulty is partially solved. But these
are not much use when they are conducted by persons who cannot
sufficiently simplify their language, or by those who are so far out
of sympathy with their audience as to appear to be condescending or
in the smallest degree pompous—characteristics which are readily
observed and resented by all children.
But probably many people will agree that “Children’s Services” alone
cannot supply all that is required, in so far as they do not accustom
children to the ordinary Church services, as to which it is not too
much to say that a certain amount of familiarity breeds affection
rather than contempt.
[Sidenote: Differences in Children’s Temperament.]
But in considering the advisability of taking little children to
Church, due regard must be had to the individual child. As has
been said, it is absolutely impossible to lay down a general rule.
Even the members of the same family are frequently so different in
disposition as to make it unwise to treat them all alike. Some may be
so sensitive to the awe-inspiring atmosphere of religious services as
to cause a fear lest their mind should become morbid on the subject.
Very probably such children would express a strong wish to attend
on every possible occasion, but their pleasure is akin to that
which is sometimes felt by people of unhealthy mind who delight in
torturing themselves by picturing nameless horrors. Other children,
and these are the most frequently found, look upon Churchgoing as an
entertainment enjoyed by grown-up people and therefore much to be
desired, though they themselves soon grow weary of the whole thing.
[Sidenote: Two Children at Church.]
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