The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children — John Shaqi
The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
How easy it would be to kill these beginnings of faith! How easy for
a teacher who had studied the Higher Criticism to wither the growth
of a belief in the unseen and incomprehensible! Is it worth while to
risk this by scrupulously teaching that Elijah’s chariot of fire
and Jonah’s whale had better be taken as allegories? A teacher with
great experience of little children has said, and said most truly,
“Religion attracts greatly because of the mystery which surrounds the
unseen. Besides this, the beauty and the wonderful fitness of all
things in nature strengthen more than anything a child’s belief in a
Divine Creator.”
* * * * *
Perhaps, as one last word, it may be said that that mother will
succeed best in the religious training of her children who feels that
it is the chief and highest work she has to do.
CHAPTER V
THE CHILD—ITS IMITATION
[Sidenote: Selection of those about the Path of a Child.]
No one who has to do with children can fail to be struck by their
almost universal habit of imitation. This begins at a very early age,
and, while some imitative expressions and gestures are partly the
result of heredity, others are obviously copied from the persons with
whom the child is most familiar. This makes it, of course, extremely
important that the servants and even the friends who are brought
most closely into contact with a child should be selected with the
greatest care.
[Sidenote: Meals in the Servants’ Hall.]
How often a bad accent or “twang” is picked up as soon as a
child begins to speak, and with what difficulty it is eradicated
afterwards! The habit, too, which obtains with some parents (who do
not want to be bothered with their children) of letting them have
their meals with the servants is greatly to be deprecated. It saves
the trouble of a special nursery dinner, and it often happens that
the servants in a house are fonder of the company of the children
than are their parents, but for all that the tendency to imitate is
so strong that habits are pretty sure to be learnt which it will be
very troublesome to get rid of afterwards. Here is an example:
A little girl, whom circumstances had relegated to the entire charge
of servants, was taken out to a children’s tea-party, when she was
scarcely four years old. It was a splendid tea, and she was a fine
healthy little girl with an equally fine healthy appetite. Bread and
butter, cake, jam sandwiches, and buns all disappeared with equal
ease, and there came a time when the rest had finished and she had
just one mouthful left.... There was a slight pause in the general
chatter, and at that unlucky moment the little girl in question gave
an unmistakable hiccough. Many of the children there would have
blushed with distress at such an incident, but this little maiden,
accustomed to the manners of the servants’ hall, looked round with an
ingratiating smile and merely remarked—“Copplyments!”
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