The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
One other caution may be given here. It is a fatal mistake for those
who are bringing up little children to speak in their presence of
religious matters in a way which they do not desire the children to
absorb and do not fancy that they understand. A child may be building
a house of bricks in a far corner of the room and yet be listening
with all its ears to the talk going on between its elders. A very
little boy was once taken to Church when a sermon was preached
about the Will of GOD. No one thought it possible that he understood
a word of it, but at tea that afternoon he was, being slightly out
of sorts, allowed no jam, on which he promptly said, “Well, if it’s
GOD’s Will that I should have nothing but bread and butter, it’s no
good fighting against it!”—a practical and excellent comment upon the
morning’s sermon.
* * * * *
Lest anything that has been written in this chapter should seem to be
discouraging as to the religious training of children, two things may
be set down here as full of hope.
[Sidenote: Influence of Women.]
The first may be disposed of in a few words. There is little doubt
that women are naturally more religious than men, or at least that
they more easily give expression to their feelings and beliefs. What
a great matter it is, then, that the earliest training of children
is in the hands of women! It is quite possible that the reason for
the greater religious expression on the part of women lies to some
extent in the fact that girls remain so much longer under the direct
influence of their mother. But that is by the way; what is important
is that there are multitudes of truly religious women who may best of
all be trusted to impart their own faith to little children.
[Sidenote: Children’s Delight in the Unseen.]
The other matter for hopefulness lies in the fact that the very
things that often present difficulties to grown-up people are
specially attractive to children. Anything connected with the unseen
world, anything quite impossible according to the laws of nature as
we know them, interests and takes hold of children at once. This is
plain from the often-repeated request, “Do tell us a fairy story.”
[Sidenote: Impression made by Beauties of Nature.]
When to this is added the impression made on a child’s mind by the
vision of a gorgeous sunset, or of a great wide-spreading view, there
seems to be a good deal upon which it is possible to work. A man
friend of the writer has told him that his first real impressions
of the greatness and goodness of GOD came to him as a child when
contemplating beautiful scenery; and an aunt of the late Bishop
Walsham How used to say that when he was a very little boy, and was
looking from a window at the sunset, he was heard to say, “Oh! GOD!”
[Sidenote: The Higher Criticism.]
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