The Camel and the Needle's EyePonsonby, Arthur Ponsonby, Baron
Philosophy
The Camel and the Needle's Eye
Ponsonby, Arthur Ponsonby, Baron
Wealth; Wealth -- Moral and ethical aspects
In later years love and marriage, difficult enough problems for anyone,
have additional snares and pitfalls for the children of the rich. It
is true that the rich man can marry the penniless girl to whom he is
devoted, and the rich girl can accept the man who is struggling for
a living. But the far more frequent occurrence is for the rich girl
to be captured by the man who wants her money, and for the rich man
to be entrapped by the ambitious mother who wants his wealth for her
daughter. Not even experience teaches. Instances could be given of
women who have married for money, and though every page of their life
has taught them the folly of this irreparable step, yet they refuse to
learn.
They spend their later life in arranging marriages at all costs with
rich men for their daughters, placing insurmountable obstacles in their
way if they attempt marriages on moderate means, which must entail
their dropping out from the ranks of the select. So it is that here
again money, far from assisting, impedes and even stifles the natural
preferences of human affections, and the average of unfortunate and
disastrous unions is far higher among the rich than in any other class.
Some people are apt to believe that the society scandals which afford
so much material for newspaper reports and gossip give an unfair
impression of the frequency of these disasters, which they maintain
arise just as often in other classes of society, but are not as widely
reported. This is not the case. In the middle and lower professional
classes, where marriages have been contracted by parties free to
exercise their natural choice and where lives are filled with work
and occupation, scandals of this description are very rare. It is in
the class where, as we have shown, the power to select is restricted
and distorted, where life itself deteriorates into prolonged idleness
and self-indulgence and the natural obligations of motherhood are
disregarded and shirked, and it is also at the very bottom of the
scale, where vice and degradation produced by want engender brutality,
where, in fact, there is too much and where there is too little, in the
scum and in the sediment, that married life becomes most frequently
intolerable.
A critic may now begin to insist that it is all very well to condemn
the large servile establishments, futile luxuries, defective education,
and foolish marriages as the outcome of riches, but that, taking them
as a whole, the class that have the assured possession of wealth are
superior in the refinements of mind and body to the lower classes, and
that as you go higher in the scale of society the proportion of mental
and physical excellence gradually increases.
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