The Catholic World, Vol. 19, April 1874‐September 1874Various
Religion
The Catholic World, Vol. 19, April 1874‐September 1874
Various
Catholic Church -- Periodicals
skilfully contrived, represents what once was a _man_.
Even pleasure no longer lurks in its outward forms when “society” has thus
worked its will on men. The real enjoyment is gone, but its dismal
appearance must be assumed. Not to shock the world—your world—the
flavorless fruit must be eaten with a good grace, the graceful draperies
of social decorum must be hung on the skeleton. The wheel goes round, and
it is so long since you have trusted to your own feet for guidance that
you must needs keep hold of the conventional support. It is very difficult
to win back your independence once it has been surrendered. The world—your
world—is a pitiless task‐master, and does not pension off its former
servants. If you leave it, you do so at your own risk; and if you can
conquer no position which merit and your own individuality are enough to
gain, you may resign yourself to the _rôle_ of a dummy. We are not sure
that some of the happiest people on earth are not, socially speaking,
dummies. But when you come to think of it, what a strange, magnetic power
has the little circle that forms your world! When a lady has crowded from
five to six hundred guests in her narrow drawing‐rooms, she sees before
her all the persons who, to her, constitute society. Of these, perhaps
one‐third are of hazy position; they are but outsiders, candidates for the
social honors which will only be bestowed fully and ungrudgingly on their
grandchildren. Their opinion is not of much value. When you dissect the
remaining thirds, you mentally check off many a respectable and amiable
person as incapable of forming any independent opinion; others you
secretly stigmatize as gossips, shallow‐minded, or spiteful; and the
circle of responsible people becomes gradually narrower and narrower.
Hardly a score do you credit with sound judgment and discriminating sense.
But these are precisely the judges you do not fear, unless your conscience
pricks you. They are generous and large‐minded; they stand apart from the
crowd, with wider sympathies and larger appreciation; they see beyond the
present, and unconsciously you find yourself classing them as exceptions
to the rule. They do not form the impalpable social tribunal, then? It
must be, therefore, the mediocre company of gossips. Search a little into
your consciousness or your memory, and you will doubtless find it is so. A
recent novelist gives an apt illustration of the relative proportion, in
the eyes of an old English country gentleman, between his county, England,
and the world. A diagram contains, first, a large, irregular outline
representing the county; a round ball ten times smaller typifies England,
and an infinitesimal point in space denotes the whole civilized world.
This is the way we all look at things. No doubt it is instinctive. To us,
“the world” consists of a hundred old women, eminently respectable and
unctuously compassionate, who gossip about our private affairs over their
tea and hot rolls.
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