The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
Nothing will, therefore, justify them in their omission of this duty. No
amount of inherited wealth; no dependence upon wealthy relatives; no
honorable station in society, will excuse them from training up their
children to some useful employment by which, if circumstances demand, they
may secure a subsistence. And even if their legacy render it unnecessary to
be followed in order to subsistence, it is a duty which is due to the
state. No man can with impunity live in the state without some employment.
This would be an infringement upon her rights and an abuse of her
privileges. The individual, with all his wealth and talents, belongs to the
state, and should, therefore, make such an appropriation of these as will
be most conducive to its welfare.
And besides, we know not what disastrous changes may take place in life.
The parental legacy may soon be squandered by the child, and he be left
without funds or friends; the emergencies of the future may increase
beyond all anticipation; sickness and manifold adversities may soon sweep
away all his inheritance. And then what will become of your child if he is
ignorant of any pursuit in which to engage for a subsistence? Besides, it
is a matter of very common observation, that those who receive a large
legacy and have been brought up in idleness, become prodigal in their
expenditure, and squander their fortune by dissipation more rapidly than
their parents amassed it by industry and frugality; and then, ignorant and
helpless and profligate, they eke out a wretched existence in abject
poverty, resorting to illegitimate means for a living, until the last
fruits of their improper training may be seen in the state's prison or upon
the gibbet.
History will afford ample illustration of this. From it we may easily infer
the duty of parental interposition. The Athenians expressed their sense of
this duty in the enactment of a law that, if parents did not qualify their
children for securing a livelihood by having them learn some occupation,
the child was not bound to make provision for the parent when old and
necessitous.
In the selection of an occupation for his children, the parent should
consult their taste and talents and circumstances, and choose for them a
pursuit adapted to these. If his child is better suited for a mechanical
pursuit, he should direct his attention to it, and educate him for it. And
thus in all respects he should obey the great law of correspondence between
the taste and capacity of the child, and the occupation to be chosen for
him.
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