The Demands of Rome: Her Own Story of Thirty-One Years as a Sister of Charity in the Order of the Sisters of Charity of Providence of the Roman Catholic Church — John Shaqi
The Demands of Rome: Her Own Story of Thirty-One Years as a Sister of Charity in the Order of the Sisters of Charity of Providence of the Roman Catholic ChurchSchoffen, Elizabeth
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The Demands of Rome: Her Own Story of Thirty-One Years as a Sister of Charity in the Order of the Sisters of Charity of Providence of the Roman Catholic Church
Schoffen, Elizabeth
Ex-nuns -- United States -- Biography; Monastic and religious life of women
Lest you worry about your letter of March 18th, I come,
although I have but a few moments to myself, to say it reached
me in due time. I have read and re-read it and find that what
you say is true. Oh! if trying to please and comfort (without
sacrificing one's religious principles) and succeeding therein
were crime, I earnestly wish there were more criminals among
us. In any case, I would urge you to continue to make other's
lives happy, and not allow the narrow-mindedness of some and
the unkindness of others to cast bitterness into your own life.
It is hard, sometimes, but there are enough beauties and
sweetnesses in life if we will only take them, and I am sure
you have proved until now you know where they are to be found
and how to make use of them. Continue, dear Sister Lucretia;
nothing that is good ever dies; we have often heard this and
perhaps so far have had occasions to experience its truth.
Allow me to quote a few lines I found not long ago and find
encouraging: "If you live the most devoted and disinterested
life possible, you will find people sneering at you and
imputing your actions to selfish motives and putting a cruel
construction on all you do or say. Well, it does not matter,
for we shall all be manifested at the Judgment seat of Christ,
before God and men and angels. Let us live to please Him, for
our integrity of motive will be known at the last, and put
beyond all dispute."
I have just learned that Sister Rita has been transferred to
Oakland. I hope she will like the South and make herself happy.
Believe me, dear Sister,
Sincerely yours,
SISTER M. WILFRID,
S. C. S. P.
You will observe from the foregoing letters that we, as sisters, do not
hold the system accountable for the wrongs we have to endure in the
convent. We believe that the sisters alone are at fault, as I have
stated in my letters to Mother Wilfrid. But the man or woman with
ordinary intelligence, who reads these conditions as they were at that
time can readily see the real source. The heads of the institution, who
had the sole power, instead of the bettering conditions, tolerated and
permitted them to remain. At that, I have my grave doubts if the convent
system could _ever_ be harmonious. Think of housing a large number of
women under one roof, bound by the ironclad, childish rules and
precepts. They are a barrier to "life, liberty and the pursuit of
happiness," which the Constitution of the United States guarantees every
citizen. They make progress an impossibility. The outside world thinks
the convent system is a success because they see the institutions grow
in size and number, which is due to the economic methods of free
sister-service. They never have the opportunity to see "success" from
within.
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