The Demands of Rome: Her Own Story of Thirty-One Years as a Sister of Charity in the Order of the Sisters of Charity of Providence of the Roman Catholic ChurchSchoffen, Elizabeth
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The Demands of Rome: Her Own Story of Thirty-One Years as a Sister of Charity in the Order of the Sisters of Charity of Providence of the Roman Catholic Church
Schoffen, Elizabeth
Ex-nuns -- United States -- Biography; Monastic and religious life of women
As a further proof that the system is the cause of discord, strife and
inharmony among the sisters I will copy another letter I wrote to
Mother Wilfrid. There is some repetition of portions of my former
letters, but I think the whole of the letter will interest my readers,
even though it is lengthy:
Dear Mother Wilfrid:
I will bring a few other points before you, Mother, which means
inharmony in our order. I do not intend to convey to you the
idea that I am an oracle of success. The intention being simply
to consider some of the principal essentials required for
success. Just a little mental view of things.
We all admit that experience is a great teacher--observation
its necessary accompaniment. Both are in vain unless a
practical application can be made of the lessons to be learned
from them.
One of the first essentials of success is common honesty. If
those who have had experience in one kind of work could only
dare to be sincere enough to express the difficulties they
meet, in such a manner as to better conditions. What's in the
way? Prejudice, the fear of not standing high as a perfect
religious, sisters, whether qualified for leadership or not,
ambitious for high offices. If the companion should be a little
more gifted in some things than the superior, she should make
herself so small and subservient that she can scarcely think.
If she cannot look scared, stand back and look perfectly mum.
She is proud, independent, trespassing on the superior's
rights, disloyal and rebelling against all rightful and lawful
authority. She is placed in a responsible position and not
permitted to be woman enough to be justified in her own
actions. She has to of necessity, due to inorganization, make a
blunder of herself and her work. We are constantly blundering
and straightening out after each other. Experience should have
taught some of us how to improve upon blundering ways. Take for
one thing, the frequent changing of the sisters without system
or method, often for no reason--then because some have put
their heads together to bare so-and-so out, they have to eat
"black bread." She has given offence--God alone knows for what
trifle. She must be punished and made unsuccessful even if the
house and place where she is will suffer the loss of her good
and successful work. This might be saying a good deal for a
subordinate, but it is the price paid for lessons taught by
experience. We will have better organization only when we will
have our sisters taught from the time they enter the work for
which they have aptitude, talent and inclination, and leave
them generally where they are contented and successful and not
shift them about from house to house, pillar to post, without
serious reason. We ought to know by this time that a work one
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