The character of a constant mourner is sometimes introduced in
romances of the earlier and nobler class; but it is rare in those
works of fiction, and indeed it is not common in what has happily been
called the romance of real life. Let me however restrict this
assertion within its proper bounds. What is meant to be here asserted
(and it is pertinent to this part of our story,) is, that it is not
common for any one who has been left a widow, or widower, early in
life, to remain so always out of pure affection to the memory of the
dead, unmingled with any other consideration or cause. Such constancy
can be found only where there is the union of a strong imagination and
a strong heart,—which perhaps is a rare union; and if to these a
strong mind be united, the effect would probably be different.
It is only in a strong imagination that the deceased object of
affection can retain so firm a hold, as never to be dispossessed from
it by a living one; and when the imagination is thus possessed, unless
the heart be strong, the heart itself, or the intellect is likely to
give way. A deep sense of religion would avert the latter alternative;
but I will not say that it is any preservative against the former.
A most affecting instance of this kind is related by Dr. Uwins in his
Treatise on Disorders of the Brain. A lady on the point of marriage,
whose intended husband usually travelled by the stage-coach to visit
her, went one day to meet him, and found instead of him an old friend
who came to announce to her the tidings of his sudden death. She
uttered a scream, and piteously exclaimed—“he is dead!” But then all
consciousness of the affliction that had befallen her ceased. “From
that fatal moment,” says the Author, “has this unfortunate female
daily for fifty years, in all seasons, traversed the distance of a few
miles to the spot where she expected her future husband to alight from
the coach; and every day she utters in a plaintive tone, ‘He is not
come yet! I will return to-morrow!’”
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