There is a more remarkable case in which love, after it had long been
apparently extinct, produced a like effect upon being accidentally
revived. It is recorded in a Glasgow newspaper. An old man residing in
the neighbourhood of that city found a miniature of his wife, taken in
her youth. She had been dead many years, and he was a person of
strictly sedate and religious habits; but the sight of this picture
overcame him. From the time of its discovery till his death, which
took place some months afterwards, he neglected all his ordinary
duties and employments, and became in a manner imbecile, spending
whole days without uttering a word, or manifesting the slightest
interest in passing occurrences. The only one with whom he would hold
any communication was a little grandchild, who strikingly resembled
the portrait; to her he was perfectly docile; and a day or two before
his death, he gave her his purse, and strictly enjoined her to lay the
picture beside him in his coffin,—a request which was accordingly
fulfilled.
Mr. Newton, of Olney, says, that once in the West Indies, upon not
receiving letters from his wife in England, he concluded that surely
she was dead, and this apprehension affected him so much that he was
nearly sinking under it. “I felt,” says he, “some severe symptoms of
that mixture of pride and madness which is commonly called a broken
heart: and indeed, I wonder that this case is not more common than it
appears to be. How often do the potsherds of the earth presume to
contend with their Maker! and what a wonder of mercy is it that they
are not all broken!”
This is a stern opinion; and he who delivered it held stern tenets,
though in his own disposition compassionate and tender. He was one who
could project his feelings, and relieve himself in the effort. No
husband ever loved his wife more passionately, nor with a more
imaginative affection; the long and wasting disease by which she was
consumed, affected him proportionably to this deep attachment; but
immediately upon her death he roused himself, after the example of
David, threw off his grief, and preached her funeral sermon. He ought
to have known that this kind of strength and in this degree, is given
to very few of us;—that a heart may break, even though it be
thoroughly resigned to the will of God, and acquiesces in it, and has
a lively faith in God's mercies;—yea that this very resignation, this
entire acquiescence, this sure and certain hope, may even accelerate
its breaking; and a soul thus chastened, thus purified, thus ripened
for immortality, may unconsciously work out the deliverance which it
ardently, but piously withal, desires.
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