Even the trifling circumstance of living in the same neighbourhood,
has some effect of the same kind. We respect the face of a man whom we
see every day, provided he has never offended us. Neighbours can be
very convenient, and they can be very troublesome, to one another. If
they are good sort of people, they are naturally disposed to agree. We
expect their good agreement; and to be a bad neighbour is a very bad
character. There are certain small good offices, accordingly, which
are universally allowed to be due to a neighbour in preference to any
other person who has no such connection.
This natural disposition to accommodate and to assimilate, as much as
we can, our own sentiments, principles, and feelings, to those which
we see fixed and rooted in the persons whom we are obliged to live and
converse a great deal with, is the cause of the contagious effects of
both {199} good and bad company. The man who associates chiefly with
the wise and the virtuous, though he may not himself become either
wise or virtuous, cannot help conceiving a certain respect at least
for wisdom and virtue; and the man who associates chiefly with the
profligate and the dissolute, though he may not himself become
profligate and dissolute, must soon lose, at least, all his original
abhorrence of profligacy and dissolution of manners. The similarity of
family characters, which we so frequently see transmitted through
several successive generations, may, perhaps, be partly owing to this
disposition to assimilate ourselves to those whom we are obliged to
live and converse a great deal with. The family character, however,
like the family countenance, seems to be owing, not altogether to the
moral, but partly too to the physical connection. The family
countenance is certainly altogether owing to the latter.
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