AS it is a divided sympathy which renders the whole set of passions
just now mentioned, upon most occasions, so ungraceful and
disagreeable: so there is another set opposite to these, which a
redoubled sympathy renders almost always peculiarly agreeable and
becoming. Generosity, humanity, kindness, compassion, mutual
friendship and esteem, all the social and benevolent affections, when
expressed in the countenance or behaviour, even towards those who are
not peculiarly connected with ourselves, please the indifferent
spectator upon almost every occasion. His sympathy with the person who
feels those passions, exactly coincides with his concern for the
person who is the object of them. The interest, which, as a man, he is
obliged to take in the happiness of this last, enlivens his
fellow-feeling with the sentiments of the other, whose emotions are
employed about the same object. We have always, therefore, the
strongest disposition to sympathize with the benevolent affections.
They appear in every respect agreeable to us. We enter into the
satisfaction both of the person who feels them, and of the person who
is the object of them. For as to be the object of hatred and
indignation gives more pain than all the evil which a brave man can
fear from his enemies: so there is a satisfaction in the consciousness
of being beloved, which, to a person of delicacy and sensibility, is
of more importance to happiness, than all the advantage which he can
expect to derive from it. What character is so detestable as that of
one who takes pleasure to sow dissention among friends, and to turn
their most tender love into mortal hatred? Yet wherein does the
atrocity of this so much abhorred injury consist? Is it in depriving
them of the frivolous good offices, which, had their friendship
continued, they might have expected from one another? It is in {38}
depriving them of that friendship itself, in robbing them of each
other's affections, from which both derived so much satisfaction; it
is in disturbing the harmony of their hearts, and putting an end to
that happy commerce which had before subsisted between them. These
affections, that harmony, this commerce, are felt, not only by the
tender and the delicate, but by the rudest vulgar of mankind, to be of
more importance to happiness than all the little services which could
be expected to flow from them.
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