The sentiment of love is, in itself, agreeable to the person who feels
it. It soothes and composes the breast, seems to favour the vital
motions, and to promote the healthful state of the human constitution;
and it is rendered still more delightful by the consciousness of the
gratitude and satisfaction which it must excite in him who is the
object of it. Their mutual regard renders them happy in one another,
and sympathy, with this mutual regard, makes them agreeable to every
other person. With what pleasure do we look upon a family, through the
whole of which reign mutual love and esteem, where the parents and
children are companions for one another, without any other difference
than what is made by respectful affection on the one side, and kind
indulgence on the other; where freedom and fondness, mutual raillery
and mutual kindness, show that no opposition of interest divides the
brothers, nor any rivalship of favour sets the sisters at variance,
and where every thing presents us with the idea of peace,
cheerfulness, harmony, and contentment? On the contrary, how uneasy
are we made when we go into a house in which jarring contention sets
one half of those who dwell in it against the other; where, amidst
affected smoothness and complaisance, suspicious looks and sudden
starts of passion betray the mutual jealousies which burn within them,
and which are every moment ready to burst out through all the
restraints which the presence of the company imposes?
Those amiable passions, even when they are acknowledged to be
excessive, are never regarded with aversion. There is something
agreeable even in the weakness of friendship and humanity. The too
tender mother, the too indulgent father, the too generous and
affectionate friend, may sometimes, perhaps, on account of the
softness of their natures, be looked upon with a species of pity, in
which, however, there is a mixture of love, but can never be regarded
with hatred and aversion, nor even with contempt, unless by the most
brutal and worthless of mankind. It is always with concern, with
sympathy and kindness, that we blame them for the extravagance of
their attachment. There is a helplessness in the character of extreme
humanity which more than any thing interests our pity. There is
nothing in itself which renders it either ungraceful or disagreeable.
We only regret that it is unfit for the world, because the world is
unworthy of it, and because it must expose the person who is endowed
with it as a prey to the perfidy {39} and ingratitude of insinuating
falsehood, and to a thousand pains and uneasinesses, which, of all
men, he the least deserves to feel, and which generally too he is, of
all men, the least capable of supporting. It is quite otherwise with
hatred and resentment. Too violent a propensity to those detestable
passions, renders a person the object of universal dread and
abhorrence, who, like a wild beast, ought, we think, to be hunted out
of all civil society.
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