Pain besides, whether of mind or body, is a more pungent sensation
than pleasure, and our sympathy with pain, though it falls greatly
short of what is naturally felt by the sufferer, is generally a more
lively and distinct perception than our sympathy with pleasure, though
this last often approaches more nearly, as I shall show immediately,
to the natural vivacity of the original passion.
Over and above all this, we often struggle to keep down our sympathy
with the sorrow of others. Whenever we are not under the observation
of the sufferer, we endeavour, for our own sake, to suppress it as
much as we can, and we are not always successful. The opposition which
we make to it, and the reluctance with which we yield to it,
necessarily oblige us to take more particular notice of it. But we
never have occasion to make this opposition to our sympathy with joy.
{43} If there is any envy in the case, we never feel the least
propensity towards it; and if there is none, we give way to it without
any reluctance. On the contrary, as we are always ashamed of our own
envy, we often pretend, and sometimes really wish to sympathize with
the joy of others, when by that disagreeable sentiment we are
disqualified from doing so. We are glad, we say, on account of our
neighbour's good fortune, when in our hearts, perhaps, we are really
sorry. We often feel a sympathy with sorrow when we would wish to be
rid of it; and we often miss that with joy when we would be glad to
have it. The obvious observation, therefore, which it naturally falls
in our way to make, is, that our propensity to sympathize with sorrow
must be very strong, and our inclination to sympathize with joy very
weak.
Notwithstanding this prejudice, however, I will venture to affirm,
that, when there is no envy in the case, our propensity to sympathize
with joy is much stronger than our propensity to sympathize with
sorrow; and that our fellow-feeling for the agreeable emotion
approaches much more nearly to the vivacity of what is naturally felt
by the persons principally concerned, than that which we conceive for
the painful one.
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