We have some indulgence for that excessive grief which we cannot
entirely go along with. We know what a prodigious effort is requisite
before the sufferer can bring down his emotions to complete harmony
and concord with those of the spectator. Though he fails, therefore,
we easily pardon him. But we have no such indulgence for the
intemperance of joy; because we are not conscious that any such vast
effort is requisite to bring it down to what we can entirely enter
into. The man who, under the greatest calamities, can command his
sorrow, seems worthy of the highest admiration; but he who, in the
fulness of prosperity, can in the same manner master his joy, seems
hardly to deserve any praise. We are sensible that there is a much
wider interval in the one case than in the other, between what is
naturally felt by the person principally concerned, and what the
spectator can entirely go along with.
What can be added to the happiness of the man who is in health, who is
out of debt, and has a clear conscience? To one in this situation, all
accessions of fortune may properly be said to be superfluous; and if
he is much elevated on account of them, it must be the effect of the
most frivolous levity. This situation, however, may very well be
called the natural and ordinary state of mankind. Notwithstanding the
present misery and depravity of the world, so justly lamented, this
really is the state of the greater part of men. The greater part of
men, therefore, cannot find any great difficulty in elevating
themselves to all the joy which any accession to this situation can
well excite in their companion.
But though little can be added to this state, much may be taken from
{44} it. Though between this condition and the highest pitch of human
prosperity, the interval is but a trifle; between it and the lowest
depth of misery the distance is immense and prodigious. Adversity, on
this account, necessarily depresses the mind of the sufferer much more
below its natural state, than prosperity can elevate him above it. The
spectator, therefore, must find it much more difficult to sympathize
entirely, and keep perfect time, with his sorrow, than thoroughly to
enter into his joy, and must depart much further from his own natural
and ordinary temper of mind in the one case than in the other. It is
on this account, that though our sympathy with sorrow is often a more
pungent sensation than our sympathy with joy, it always falls much
more short of the violence of what is naturally felt by the person
principally concerned.
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